Woman wanting attention

[Lordeterra]

This girl I'm seeing is double messaging me that she's mad I'm not giving her attention. This is a red flag is it not? I know women crave attention. Even those that say they hate getting creepy male attention still love they are being admired. But is this too far?

 

[Rakeboy]

May be she is desperate to have a bf. Is she hitting the wall soon? For me it is a red flag. She is a low value woman.

 

[Lordeterra]

May be she is desperate to have a bf. Is she hitting the wall soon? For me it is a red flag. She is a low value woman.

She's 19. She looks like stoya in porn but smaller. She was born in Italy and came to america at 16 but speaks fluent English. I think she seems a bit lost though.

 

[Black Widow Void]

This would seem to have the ingredients of a passive/aggressive woman.
Chances are, she'll act sweet when she initiates a message, but if she doesn't get what she wants (a reply) when she wants (in the time she deems suitable), you'll see a negative side to her... and then, if you react, she'll probably play the victim.

This doesn't look good. If she's super hot or your options are limited, I'd suggest that when you respond, you do not engage her on the negatives. Just pretend like it's not there (if your buttons are pushed and you react, you lose).

 

[Lordeterra]

This would seem to have the ingredients of a passive/aggressive woman.
Chances are, she'll act sweet when she initiates a message, but if she doesn't get what she wants (a reply) when she wants (in the time she deems suitable), you'll see a negative side to her... and then, if you react, she'll probably play the victim.

This doesn't look good. If she's super hot or your options are limited, I'd suggest that when you respond, you do not engage her on the negatives. Just pretend like it's not there (if your buttons are pushed and you react, you lose).

She's definitely a bit coo coo. Crazy in bed though. Idk if this is just typical female behavior or just her

 

[Rakeboy]

She's definitely a bit coo coo. Crazy in bed though. Idk if this is just typical female behavior or just her

In my experience, it is normal specially with young unexperience girls. They are hot and cold, flakey, send mixed signals etc. Specially, if they have lots of fanboys line up.

 

[Black Widow Void]

She's definitely a bit coo coo. Crazy in bed though. Idk if this is just typical female behavior or just her

This seems to go with the territory: For every 'big girl' that has mastered 'oral support'... you'll find a mentally unbalanced girl that is going to be wild in bed.

*ahem* *cough* not that I've had any experience with either.

 

[r4zorsharp]

That's a huge red flag my dude. This is something that girls who are looking to use you as a temporary band aid and aren't afraid to sacrifice their dignity do. It's also what girls who are needy & manipulative tend to do.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

This girl I'm seeing is double messaging me that she's mad I'm not giving her attention. This is a red flag is it not? I know women crave attention. Even those that say they hate getting creepy male attention still love they are being admired. But is this too far?

She's communicating what she feels pretty directly, which is good, but she's not being proactive, which is childish.

If she was proactive she'd simply say something sweet and ask you a question to get a conversation going. Since she's not doing that it would seem she's being selfish and expecting you to do everything.

It's a good opportunity for a check. Simply ignore or respond with something like 'uhh excuse me?'

You could also just tease her about it, "Does that mean you really like me? Are you going to put gum in my hair too?"

Women should be a joy, not a pain. When they act like you should revolve around them it's laughable. Women really don't like men that revolve around them, it just shows extreme insecurity when they insist you do.

 

[Lordeterra]

That's a huge red flag my dude. This is something that girls who are looking to use you as a temporary band aid and aren't afraid to sacrifice their dignity do. It's also what girls who are needy & manipulative tend to do.

Yeah she seems damaged. Don't know what the **** to do.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

This girl I'm seeing is double messaging me that she's mad I'm not giving her attention. This is a red flag is it not? I know women crave attention. Even those that say they hate getting creepy male attention still love they are being admired. But is this too far?

Tell her to take her clothes off.