"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lordeterra

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This girl I'm seeing is double messaging me that she's mad I'm not giving her attention. This is a red flag is it not? I know women crave attention. Even those that say they hate getting creepy male attention still love they are being admired. But is this too far?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rakeboy

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May be she is desperate to have a bf. Is she hitting the wall soon? For me it is a red flag. She is a low value woman.
 

Lordeterra

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May be she is desperate to have a bf. Is she hitting the wall soon? For me it is a red flag. She is a low value woman.
She's 19. She looks like stoya in porn but smaller. She was born in Italy and came to america at 16 but speaks fluent English. I think she seems a bit lost though.
 

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This would seem to have the ingredients of a passive/aggressive woman.
Chances are, she'll act sweet when she initiates a message, but if she doesn't get what she wants (a reply) when she wants (in the time she deems suitable), you'll see a negative side to her... and then, if you react, she'll probably play the victim.

This doesn't look good. If she's super hot or your options are limited, I'd suggest that when you respond, you do not engage her on the negatives. Just pretend like it's not there (if your buttons are pushed and you react, you lose).
 

Lordeterra

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This would seem to have the ingredients of a passive/aggressive woman.
Chances are, she'll act sweet when she initiates a message, but if she doesn't get what she wants (a reply) when she wants (in the time she deems suitable), you'll see a negative side to her... and then, if you react, she'll probably play the victim.

This doesn't look good. If she's super hot or your options are limited, I'd suggest that when you respond, you do not engage her on the negatives. Just pretend like it's not there (if your buttons are pushed and you react, you lose).
She's definitely a bit coo coo. Crazy in bed though. Idk if this is just typical female behavior or just her
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She's definitely a bit coo coo. Crazy in bed though. Idk if this is just typical female behavior or just her
In my experience, it is normal specially with young unexperience girls. They are hot and cold, flakey, send mixed signals etc. Specially, if they have lots of fanboys line up.
 

Black Widow Void

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She's definitely a bit coo coo. Crazy in bed though. Idk if this is just typical female behavior or just her
This seems to go with the territory: For every 'big girl' that has mastered 'oral support'... you'll find a mentally unbalanced girl that is going to be wild in bed.

*ahem* *cough* not that I've had any experience with either.
 

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That's a huge red flag my dude. This is something that girls who are looking to use you as a temporary band aid and aren't afraid to sacrifice their dignity do. It's also what girls who are needy & manipulative tend to do.
 

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This girl I'm seeing is double messaging me that she's mad I'm not giving her attention. This is a red flag is it not? I know women crave attention. Even those that say they hate getting creepy male attention still love they are being admired. But is this too far?
She's communicating what she feels pretty directly, which is good, but she's not being proactive, which is childish.

If she was proactive she'd simply say something sweet and ask you a question to get a conversation going. Since she's not doing that it would seem she's being selfish and expecting you to do everything.

It's a good opportunity for a check. Simply ignore or respond with something like 'uhh excuse me?'

You could also just tease her about it, "Does that mean you really like me? Are you going to put gum in my hair too?"

Women should be a joy, not a pain. When they act like you should revolve around them it's laughable. Women really don't like men that revolve around them, it just shows extreme insecurity when they insist you do.
 

Lordeterra

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That's a huge red flag my dude. This is something that girls who are looking to use you as a temporary band aid and aren't afraid to sacrifice their dignity do. It's also what girls who are needy & manipulative tend to do.
Yeah she seems damaged. Don't know what the **** to do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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This girl I'm seeing is double messaging me that she's mad I'm not giving her attention. This is a red flag is it not? I know women crave attention. Even those that say they hate getting creepy male attention still love they are being admired. But is this too far?
Tell her to take her clothes off.
 
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