True but some women are that damaged where they need to play those games. I’ve seen it.She isn't bored because he isn't an @sshole, she is bored because he is boring.
You don't need to be an @sshole to be fun and exciting to be around.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.