Lordeterra
Senior Don Juan
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- Sep 22, 2020
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anyone in game for 4+ years want to discuss different tactics?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
+1Focus on women that show a high interest, ditch the rest.
If a high interest woman isnt beneficial to you, next.
If she is high interest and beneficial but not submissive, find another and monkey branch.
Spin more plates.
The alternative is to be able to make yourself happy with or without a chick. Even the greatest of alpha males have some down time, normally by choice (having high standards). That time is beneficial. The happiest of men with a woman who can't still be just as happy without one are doomed IMO.+1
Fellas need to source but from the perspective as sport. Aaron's new book apparently sources that numbers in the SMP from the point of view of married life, dating, and other information. It's abysmal. The ROI from out of approach to the pull and what is usually not great sex especially from a ONS, the burn rate to conversion ratio is trash.
A miniscule amount of women are healthy, fit, attractive, and not crazy. You are sifting through trash more often than not (regrettably). I don't advocate porn or inactivity but I get it when guys check out.
High interest is king. Compliance is key. Any hard to get, lmr, and or anything but genuine desire means #next. Knowing is half the battle. The piece of advice is to approach a handful everyday. It changes your sec life. It also makes you see how much more Better bachelor life is when the alternative is cucked. Nobody wants to be the 40yr old in the club but wtf is the alternative?
When Rollo talks blue pill alpha, I am guilty of this at one point or another prior to the game. As in, someone like modern life or anybody who crossed the line, trolling or whatever, I wouldn't hesitate to throw down. I am a grown man and not in the headspace anymore but I think it is foolish yet, useful. Even pickup doesn't unplug you though, getting girls is better than not. I am evolving and a new paradigm is COUNTER to the point. There's getting girls. There's having options and choosing. As in, if baeee texts late night to come over and I have to be on my purpose, mission, whatever, etc I probably won't even respond let alone attend. I'm reading Tantra by Osho. I just finished path to God by RD. Can pull but deciding whether or not you want to or better yet, decide if she's worthy? That is gold.The alternative is to be able to make yourself happy with or without a chick. Even the greatest of alpha males have some down time, normally by choice (having high standards). That time is beneficial. The happiest of men with a woman who can't still be just as happy without one are doomed IMO.
so I have learned lulz.Nothing wrong with waiting for an abundance of women worth the time and effort instead of settling on women as plates "just to have them around".
Respect.Personally, during the spring and summer especially, if I am plate free for a month its no big deal. I'll enjoy golfing, boating, fishing trips, etc until quality women find themselves in my web. At that point I'll pounce, but I can also be just as happy doing my own thing with friends.
Money! +1That alone is one of the greatest defense mechanisms against these women who think they are the world's gift to men.
BumpNothing to discuss. Pull or #next. Comply or goodbye. Become a Neanderthal and be absolute ruthless with your time.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PM me if you like.anyone in game for 4+ years want to discuss different tactics?