"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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After a year long dry spell, would you keep waiting to bang a hottie or would you settle with banging a ugly girl?

DanGreen

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Ok so the last time myself and my housemate both hooked up with girls was nearly a year ago at a Christmas house party on Christmas Eve! We hooked up with a couple hotties in Santa girl outfits.

Since then due to Covid and all the social distancing (living in a small town in UK doesn’t help) we haven’t really had the opportunity to go out and meet new girls this year.

My mate had been getting messaged by a girl he knows that is fat and unattractive saying she’s down to **** him this weekend and he asked me for advice whether he should wait it out until he meets a attractive girl to **** or just bang this ugly/fat chick just to destroy his dry spell.

Now I said to him I’m strictly in the mindset of I would rather wait to bang a hottie (despite being insanely horny now) than settle for fat/ugly.

So guys what’s your opinions? If you were going through a nearly year long dry spell would you keep hanging on longer until you can meet/bang a hot girl? Or would you think **** it, I’ll just bang a unattractive chick just to beat the dry spell and then focus on meeting attractive girls again afterwards?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No, attractive.
But seriously, he should socialize more and even consider moving to a new city to meet more people. (Waiting for next year's Christmas to hopefully meeting an attractive woman?!! LOL)
 

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No, attractive.
But seriously, he should socialize more and even consider moving to a new city to meet more people. (Waiting for next year's Christmas to hopefully meeting an attractive woman?!! LOL)
Lol no he definitely doesn’t want to wait till next Christmas (I certainly don’t either) it’s just he’s not sure whether to wait it out or get it done with so he no longer has a dry spell.
 

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If you want to stay good in bed then bang an occasional fattie if you must. I can assure you that playing with yourself for a year isn't doing anything to enhance your bedroom skills for when you finally bag that supermodel you're waiting on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you enjoy sex with girls you don’t think are hot, by all means go for it. It doesn’t work that way for me though.
 

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Ok so the last time myself and my housemate both hooked up with girls was nearly a year ago at a Christmas house party on Christmas Eve! We hooked up with a couple hotties in Santa girl outfits.

Since then due to Covid and all the social distancing (living in a small town in UK doesn’t help) we haven’t really had the opportunity to go out and meet new girls this year.

My mate had been getting messaged by a girl he knows that is fat and unattractive saying she’s down to **** him this weekend and he asked me for advice whether he should wait it out until he meets a attractive girl to **** or just bang this ugly/fat chick just to destroy his dry spell.

Now I said to him I’m strictly in the mindset of I would rather wait to bang a hottie (despite being insanely horny now) than settle for fat/ugly.

So guys what’s your opinions? If you were going through a nearly year long dry spell would you keep hanging on longer until you can meet/bang a hot girl? Or would you think **** it, I’ll just bang a unattractive chick just to beat the dry spell and then focus on meeting attractive girls again afterwards?
Beat the dry spell. No guarantees you'll fvck the "hot" chick.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lookatu

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"Beggars can't be choosers..."

If you don't have to put forth any effort in getting the lay and she passes the boner test and you're only meeting in private, what do you have to lose? Just wrap it up, make sure she's clean as others said.

If she doesn't pass the boner test then it's going to be a waste of time so don't even try.
 

Mike32ct

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Besides the obvious boner test, I would say that, at an absolute minimum, it must not feel like a chore.

Think of it this way... If she was coming over your place in a hour, would you be EXCITED about it, or would you feel more like cancelling?

Don’t have to answer. Just food for thought.
 

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Ok so the last time myself and my housemate both hooked up with girls was nearly a year ago at a Christmas house party on Christmas Eve! We hooked up with a couple hotties in Santa girl outfits.

Since then due to Covid and all the social distancing (living in a small town in UK doesn’t help) we haven’t really had the opportunity to go out and meet new girls this year.

My mate had been getting messaged by a girl he knows that is fat and unattractive saying she’s down to **** him this weekend and he asked me for advice whether he should wait it out until he meets a attractive girl to **** or just bang this ugly/fat chick just to destroy his dry spell.

Now I said to him I’m strictly in the mindset of I would rather wait to bang a hottie (despite being insanely horny now) than settle for fat/ugly.

So guys what’s your opinions? If you were going through a nearly year long dry spell would you keep hanging on longer until you can meet/bang a hot girl? Or would you think **** it, I’ll just bang a unattractive chick just to beat the dry spell and then focus on meeting attractive girls again afterwards?
One of my mates is on track to be a millionaire. He is wealthy. From wealth. He has garbage game irl. Decent OLD or swipe game. Not bad looking. Fit too. Got the bag. He never learned pickup. He rather get escorts and go making more money. I learned pickup. He is on track to be millionaire. I don't have it in me to behave like him but he broke it down. The ROI is garbage spending hundreds of hours swiping and approaching. He pays. She swallows and they leave. He pays her to go.

I have been in the game for ages. It takes a while. In my life I saw one ten. The girls are cute and the odd stunner. Real talk. I love the game. I have flashes of brilliancy and other times I putter through the pickup particularly when I am not into it.

Get D sucked.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Besides the obvious boner test, I would say that, at an absolute minimum, it must not feel like a chore.

Think of it this way... If she was coming over your place in a hour, would you be EXCITED about it, or would you feel more like cancelling?

Don’t have to answer. Just food for thought.
Cute. I will take a young 21yr old cute 6, basic plain Jane any day over a hot girl pushing 30 looking at playing house.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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corrector

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Just stay celibate. Good things come to those who wait.
 

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As long as it is more fun than whatever else you would be doing at that time, why not.

Don't' let her take any photo of you...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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