Who Dares Win
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No sh1t what was the stereotypical narcistist b1tch character in 00s high school dramas became the normality in 2020.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This is the new social normality in 2020
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No sh1t what was the stereotypical narcistist b1tch character in 00s high school dramas became the normality in 2020.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MatureDJ
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That first chick in yoga pants doesn't even have a good figure (yes, just being slender is NOT enough).
bat soup
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Come on, now. High voltage selfies are my favourite.Lol, thanks for that video.
It got so bad in Russia they had to create this PSA. LOL
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MatureDJ
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So Russia is putting out a PSA in *English*?Lol, thanks for that video.
It got so bad in Russia they had to create this PSA. LOL
r4zorsharp
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Who cares man? Why hate on people who like how they look and like to feel themselves? Social media is great for the people who enjoy it and do good with it, and gets complaints from people who dont use it.. It will forever be that way.
Some of these people make money off social media man. Youtubers they cant live without their camera. Instagram people too. Some women who like modeling get their gigs from instagram. Even businesses they acquire customers and produce content for their customer base on social media.
Its never fly to be a hater. remember that man. That **** definitely translates into all interactions u have with women. Since there's a slight resentment there.
Some of these people make money off social media man. Youtubers they cant live without their camera. Instagram people too. Some women who like modeling get their gigs from instagram. Even businesses they acquire customers and produce content for their customer base on social media.
Its never fly to be a hater. remember that man. That **** definitely translates into all interactions u have with women. Since there's a slight resentment there.
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I believe in 5 years time, maybe less, there are going to be major social outlets strictly dedicated to exposing the fakeness of social media, all the nonsense, all the lies, I think that will become the next great witch hunt and it will be led by women who are resentful.
This stuff is forever online, really the joke is on them.
This stuff is forever online, really the joke is on them.
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she is O.K definitely not bad at alll but...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
because its spreading like a virus, and literally the parasite of society.
its so bad now your kid could fall down the stairs with its neck snapped in half, and the mom would have to "tell facebook" before she called an Ambulance
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Gold advice!
Your subconscious affect your interactions, so the more you fuel "your bias" the more it will affect your interaction by 1) attracting narcissistic (the people you complain about) ... 2) pushing away the nice one (people you want to attract won't be interested in you due to your negative obsessions).
Beside this video is full montage/edit.. He could have paid them for all we know, or he saw 10 000 couples but shows the 1 that does the social media stuff
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@Who Dares Win
Pretty much every attractive woman I know of in my area posts on social media. I'm not particularly sure what the actually goal of it is, but I think it's just a habit that developed when they were in high school and it's just the norm for them. However, there is a difference between posting sporadically compared to literally posting tons of selfies and being highly active on social media when there is no real gain to be had from it. Very few people are actually making money off of social media, so if a woman is constantly taking selfies and updating her instagram stories I personally find that to be far too attention seeking.
There's one particular woman, who I haven't spoken to in over 2 years, that was a social media attention *****. She is and was very attractive, but virtually everything she posts borders on inappropriate means of doing so. This woman posts pictures of her in little thongs with her ass out, will wear yoga pants to the gym where you can see her *****, etc. Literally her whole existence revolves around how much attention she can garner and she is willing to do anything it takes to get it. This woman had many issues that I became aware of after I stopped talking to her and in reality I was only aware of probably 10% of it. She would bounce from guy to guy on a monthly basis, again a sign there is something off with her. It's women like this that you have to screen for, posting on social media in general isn't necessarily the problem but instead it's the manner and degree to which they utilize it.
Now, for men to engage in behavior like this I find it really odd and it makes me question them as individuals. There are a few people I know of that go to the gym I'm at and the **** they post on their is the douchiest crap I've ever seen. One dude claims to be a "real estate expert", guy is maybe 5'4" and never trained in his life but relies on steroids to look fit. On his social media he'll edit his pictures to look like a really big guy but when you see him in person he is like half the size. There are a few other guys that are like this as well, just douchey cringey nonsense.
Pretty much every attractive woman I know of in my area posts on social media. I'm not particularly sure what the actually goal of it is, but I think it's just a habit that developed when they were in high school and it's just the norm for them. However, there is a difference between posting sporadically compared to literally posting tons of selfies and being highly active on social media when there is no real gain to be had from it. Very few people are actually making money off of social media, so if a woman is constantly taking selfies and updating her instagram stories I personally find that to be far too attention seeking.
There's one particular woman, who I haven't spoken to in over 2 years, that was a social media attention *****. She is and was very attractive, but virtually everything she posts borders on inappropriate means of doing so. This woman posts pictures of her in little thongs with her ass out, will wear yoga pants to the gym where you can see her *****, etc. Literally her whole existence revolves around how much attention she can garner and she is willing to do anything it takes to get it. This woman had many issues that I became aware of after I stopped talking to her and in reality I was only aware of probably 10% of it. She would bounce from guy to guy on a monthly basis, again a sign there is something off with her. It's women like this that you have to screen for, posting on social media in general isn't necessarily the problem but instead it's the manner and degree to which they utilize it.
Now, for men to engage in behavior like this I find it really odd and it makes me question them as individuals. There are a few people I know of that go to the gym I'm at and the **** they post on their is the douchiest crap I've ever seen. One dude claims to be a "real estate expert", guy is maybe 5'4" and never trained in his life but relies on steroids to look fit. On his social media he'll edit his pictures to look like a really big guy but when you see him in person he is like half the size. There are a few other guys that are like this as well, just douchey cringey nonsense.
every bloke i know who behaves like this, his mom ran the household
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Social media is a tool like a hammer.
Bash someone's skull in, spend life in jail.
Or build a house.
Your call.
I use my Instagram to get local music gigs.
I put in regular music content and some elements of my personal life on it.
I keep it as real as possible.
I don't follow anyone, and use the posts as an online journal.
Couple thou followers, nothing major.
Still lowkey flex, some side hustle and dates.
Bash someone's skull in, spend life in jail.
Or build a house.
Your call.
I use my Instagram to get local music gigs.
I put in regular music content and some elements of my personal life on it.
I keep it as real as possible.
I don't follow anyone, and use the posts as an online journal.
Couple thou followers, nothing major.
Still lowkey flex, some side hustle and dates.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.