Gold comment. This sums up my education on red pill.She can't be your perfect housewife and still do the career thing, that's as rare as finding the perfect alpha and stable provider in the same guy.
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Gold comment. This sums up my education on red pill.She can't be your perfect housewife and still do the career thing, that's as rare as finding the perfect alpha and stable provider in the same guy.
What does HER making six figs have to do with my quality of life?This sounds like transactional sex. She wants a place to live and bangs you to get you hooked.
a normal chick would have her own life and wouldn’t blow up your phone 24/7. The situation could get even more toxic as she sits around and you don’t kick her out, signaling to her that you are ok with the nagging.
you have to ask yourself, do I need the puzzy this bad? It’s the only thing she has to offer
no relationship is perfect. If she were making 6 figures and denying you sex, you’d still be complaining. Have to figure out if, in the long run, you’re willing to put up with bad behavior to get laid on the reg.
just depends on what the man is looking for , some guys dont go out much, arent really that social , so a submissive hot gf that loves sex and cooking and cleaning would be perfect(most guys are trying to turn their women into this), some guys are social butterflys and a gf like this would eventually drive them up a wall, running away from the chick.Pretty much ideal for a Don Juan. Gives me unlimited sex, cooks, cleans, fine as ****, not a gold digger she rarely asks me to buy her stuff. My only two issues
1. she has no real drive or ambition to make money. She’s been unemployed 6 months after leaving her job and doesn’t want to do anything to better herself.
2. she drives me ****ing nuts. Blows my phone up 24/7. Argues over stupid ****. Sometimes I wonder if I would seriously rather be with the average promiscuous feminist most guys on here complain about
I want a chick that makes some money so she can pitch in. I want a chick that lets me have a life and isn’t attached to me 24/7 who I see maybe 4-5 days a week. Not someone I have to spend every night with.
Am I acting like a whiny little ungreatful *****? Or would this type of situation drive any guy nuts? We are in our late 20’s. She is a sweet girl and I have it pretty good, lots of perks and don’t want to hurt her....I don’t want to give up the amazing constant sex but she is legit driving me nuts every other day with her annoying ****
This is probably the closest reply I agree with on this topic. It really comes down to what kind of person you are and a binary relationship dynamic. You either have someone that wants most of your time or you have a woman who is more independent. Both have their trade offs which may be equally frustrating. There is no unicorn my friend.just depends on what the man is looking for , some guys dont go out much, arent really that social , so a submissive hot gf that loves sex and cooking and cleaning would be perfect(most guys are trying to turn their women into this), some guys are social butterflys and a gf like this would eventually drive them up a wall, running away from the chick.
maybe you need a chick who is not ready to settle down yet. and still does her own thing, maybe you're not ready for this yet. (and its good , you shuld never settle and become complacent,my advice is deal with the nagging and keep the pressure on her)
.i've been in relationships where i tried to ''turn a h0e into a housewife'' for lack of better words, and it didnt work out ,if she is sitting her azz in that house ****in you on command and keeping your house clean , its a good sign imo , my only worry would be how long will it last.
so dont give up your social life, stay socially fit.
but its the 80/20 rule , nobody gets 100% of what they want , you get 80 at best .
think about what you want out of this
Dependent < IndependentThis is probably the closest reply I agree with on this topic. It really comes down to what kind of person you are and a binary relationship dynamic. You either have someone that wants most of your time or you have a woman who is more independent. Both have their trade offs which may be equally frustrating. There is no unicorn my friend.
I was going to troll thread starters title with my having a hard throbbing erection. Strong e brags is strong lulz!Pretty much ideal for a Don Juan. Gives me unlimited sex, cooks, cleans, fine as ****, not a gold digger she rarely asks me to buy her stuff. My only two issues
1. she has no real drive or ambition to make money. She’s been unemployed 6 months after leaving her job and doesn’t want to do anything to better herself.
2. she drives me ****ing nuts. Blows my phone up 24/7. Argues over stupid ****. Sometimes I wonder if I would seriously rather be with the average promiscuous feminist most guys on here complain about
I want a chick that makes some money so she can pitch in. I want a chick that lets me have a life and isn’t attached to me 24/7 who I see maybe 4-5 days a week. Not someone I have to spend every night with.
Am I acting like a whiny little ungreatful *****? Or would this type of situation drive any guy nuts? We are in our late 20’s. She is a sweet girl and I have it pretty good, lots of perks and don’t want to hurt her....I don’t want to give up the amazing constant sex but she is legit driving me nuts every other day with her annoying ****
It's the mode he's in as well. When you think all women are bishes thats what you'll see.It seems from my memory that you post about these type of toxic women a lot...is this the type of women you tend to attract?
If so, you are going to need to figure out why because otherwise you will just move from one toxic chick to another. Being hot doesn't make them a quality woman. If this is the number 1 priority for you then you are likely accepting their flaws because of it.