That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
His hair looks like that of a much younger "cad".Looking younger than his age basically means "he has a good hairline and density, he is in shape and has few wrinkles".
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Frank Grillo is 55 but younger women love him, do you think it would be the same without that arrogant hair line and density?
A crappy hair line has a low impact only on masculine men that were not depending on beauty to look attractive to women
Yeah definitely. Stereotypical soap star "Chad" hair is usually pushed up in the front. His is pushed back, which could be due to some possible thinning on the crown.His hair looks like that of a much younger "cad".
I wonder how the thickness looks in person, in the pic looks pretty thick and healthy, alot of "life". I wonder if someone can photo shop him into a bald look to compare. See even if you look sharp bald, for hair is an extra dimension.Yeah definitely. Stereotypical soap star "Chad" hair is usually pushed up in the front. His is pushed back, which could be due to some possible thinning on the crown.
But nevertheless, this dude has great hair.