Things to do before the end of the year.

[RangerMIke]

You don't need a Life-coach or self-help guru. Things you can master in 50 days.

• Do not chase anyone.
• Do not beg anything from anyone.
• Know your worth.
• Leave space for people that matter.
• Accept what you cannot change.
• Change what you can that you do not like.
• Respect yourself.

This will set you up for next year.

 

[MatureDJ]

You don't need a Life-coach or self-help guru. Things you can master in 50 days.

• Do not chase anyone.
• Do not beg anything from anyone.
• Know your worth.
• Leave space for people that matter.
• Accept what you cannot change.
• Change what you can that you do not like.
• Respect yourself.

This will set you up for next year.

Sounds like the philosophy for a StoicCel.

 

[Glassguy]

@RangerMIke
Excellent list. If more men would focus on themselves and put themselves first, they would find the dating world to be much easier and reap benefits. Its all a byproduct of working on yourself.

Too many people want to stay stagnant and expect results.

 

[RickTheToad]

You don't need a Life-coach or self-help guru. Things you can master in 50 days.

• Do not chase anyone.
• Do not beg anything from anyone.
• Know your worth.
• Leave space for people that matter.
• Accept what you cannot change.
• Change what you can that you do not like.
• Respect yourself.

This will set you up for next year.

Truth!

 

[RangerMIke]

Sounds like the philosophy for a StoicCel.

Everyone has to take a first step. How do you eat an elephant? One bit at a time. If after you fix yourself you decide to go MGTOW, that's your choice. But if you want decent chicks in your life, you have to fix your mindset.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Could add bang 6 new women to the list haha

 

[Baibars]

Sounds like the philosophy for a StoicCel.

Being not dependant on the outcome and reacting accordingly is not exclusive for the Stoicism Philosophy. You will find this concept in many other teachings and Religions .

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Hit the gym diet etc I've been doing this since covid hit. I like it better I'm actually ok with not spinning plates till summer 2021 the earliest. The market out there is bad. I'm researching investing stocks etc

 

[MatureDJ]

Everyone has to take a first step. How do you eat an elephant? One bit at a time. If after you fix yourself you decide to go MGTOW, that's your choice. But if you want decent chicks in your life, you have to fix your mindset.

I was referring to the point "Do not chase anyone". An initial chase is essential, otherwise a man is left with whatever hypergamic whales want him.

 

[BadBoy89]

Nice.

Regarding women, I would just add: women do not care about you, they care about what you can DO for them.

Otherwise great list.

 

[RangerMIke]

I was referring to the point "Do not chase anyone". An initial chase is essential, otherwise a man is left with whatever hypergamic whales want him.

Let me be clear, I am not suggesting you should not go after women PLURAL. But you should not chase A WOMAN, singular. Chasing a particular chick does not work. I can see where that statement might be misconstrued.

 

[Atom Smasher]

All of that can be cured by one action and one action only - Pursue your purpose.

You will be too busy to chase.
You will be too fulfilled to beg.
You will automatically have a sense of self worth.
You will give value to those who deserve it.
You will let go of things you cannot control and spend all your will on things you can.
Your "will" would be at an all time high level.
You will automatically have self respect....because you are giving value to yourself everyday by pursuing your purpose.

I can go on....

Your vibe and presence would be transparent.
Your maximum charm would be expressed.
Your presence would be respected by all.
Your presence would be appreciated because you give off a vibe of high value.
You would experience zero internal state friction because you are taking care of your responsibilities.
You would not know what the hell anxiety is.
You would have a strong sense of sovereignty that will cause you to love hearing yourself talk.
You will command attention.
You will start to lead others.
You will expand your sphere of influence.
You will manifest abundance and success.
You will become your own eco-system.
You will cause others to want to be part of your eco-system.
You will have very little problems in life.
You will begin to change the world around you. Change first starts form within.
You will be able to unite your dreams with your reality.

Earth is a realm. We live in the realm of will.

Using all your will to pursue your purpose is the only action worth anything in life.

"1000 philosophies does not equal to 1 purposeful action" -Buddha.

@stormrider I would like to see your take on how a man can identify his purpose. I think many men would benefit from that.

 

[flowtheory]

I use Dan Millman's life purpose calculator

Life Purpose Calculator - The Peaceful Warrior's Way

www.peacefulwarrior.com

That was oddly accurate. Interesting.

 

[Georgepithyou]

These are things we ahould always do and stick to, but new years resolutions means we have an excuse to change

 

[bcude]

@stormrider I would like to see your take on how a man can identify his purpose. I think many men would benefit from that.

+1
There is soooo much talk in the manosphere about pursuing your purpose, but little to no information on how to actually identify and find it, except vague statements like "go out into the world and try things!".
Some say it needs to be something meaningful and involve helping others, some say creating a family is meaningful enough.

 

[christie]

I can tell you one idea of a deceased man's purpose was, while he was still alive.

'To be a good friend'

That's it.

It shone through his most recent girlfriend, brother and nephews' eulogy speech at the zoom youtube video I watched.

I saw that purpose of his back in 1994 when I first dated him.
And it was obvious he kept to his purpose these decades later.
Much respect to his imprint.


Seems too simple though, doesn't it? Too abstract because it doesn't refer to running a business or raising a family right?

But that was his purpose in life.

'To be a good friend'
He worked hard at that, my word.


Purpose is what you declare it to be and what you do most often over your lifetime.
Your purpose is what you repeat and work on the most; that gives you the greatest satisfaction.

Your purpose will be what people at your funeral will speak of with the most awe and reverance and emotion in their voices and your purpose will be revealed as the common characteristic all people will speak of you as a common theme when you've passed away.