I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If she was interested it would be easy and you wouldn't need to ask for help on here.
I have a coworker who plays the same games on and off for 1,5 years now. She never gets tired of the eye****ing game. If I don't give her attention, she even goes mad and ignores me for days. When I gave in a few times, she started playing hot and cold. In 1,5 years nothing ever happened between us, despite her initiating every single flirt, so I stopped interacting with her in nonbusiness situations.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes and that might be what she’s doing with saying she got an encounter with a guy with corona and staying home to figure out her next move to ditch everything. I will let you guys know and try to erase this out of my system.
Thank you so much brother, I love you guys I swear to god.
Remember bro we were never mean to you or anything, we just tried to help you to get that scrawny slvt in your past. You are her boss you deserve better girl believe me that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes, be careful. You can be fairly direct with women in most environments without any consequence, but at work it's a different matter. The inability to be direct means that you have to be subtle, which leaves women a lot of room to play games. Women like to avoid giving a direct answer if they're not interested, because then they can manipulate you.
Yes her ex cheated on her and she was broken. That happened when she worked for me for a month. The next months she started flirting with me hard and giving out iois, I flirted back but no action. Then at some point she said my ex is kind of back in my life. He said sorry to her father and told her that he messed around with 4 women after her. She takes him back because she loves him. She plays around with me at work showing interest in my love and personal life and now she’s seeing him again. We are now in this situation I wrote about...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I absolutley act dominant and funny. Joke around and light. No jealousy or weak behavior in my communication or vibe. I don’t lose my face on work around her or anyone
Her ex is a CHALLENGE for her and you are not.
Agreed. The part that people (some) don't see is that it was the OP HIMSELF who bought the leash,put it on himself,handed the chick the handle,then got down on all fours awaiting commands.
More likely she said "my boss is harassing me" and they told her to make an excuse to avoid being alone with you whilst she looks for another job and/or a lawyer.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
