Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What does she want?

Bolond

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Posted a thread about me beeing so played.
I still love her. Told her so. Her reply was "that is something we should talk about when we have the cooperation talk with social services"
It was not a no or a yes..What does she want?
Tomorow social services is caling me to hear my side of the story and they are going to speak to her to before we all meet.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Posted a thread about me beeing so played.
I still love her. Told her so. Her reply was "that is something we should talk about when we have the cooperation talk with social services"
It was not a no or a yes..What does she want?
Tomorow social services is caling me to hear my side of the story and they are going to speak to her to before we all meet.
She wants you to be confused.
 

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Man I don't think there are much help for you. You're 40 yrs old you should know better. She was stringing you along for 16 fvckin months and what you should've do was to give yourself some big slap in the face to wake the fvck up and say fvck this enough is enough. But you still love her? Cmon.

You need to move on, this b1tch is keeping you in a downroll spiral of sexless life and misery. Do what you have to do for your kid and that's it.
 

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You are simply allowing her to have and keep all the power over you and she will toy with you and get whatever she wants from it and then discard you again like yesterday's newspaper.
 

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Posted a thread about me beeing so played.
I still love her. Told her so. Her reply was "that is something we should talk about when we have the cooperation talk with social services"
It was not a no or a yes..What does she want?
Tomorow social services is caling me to hear my side of the story and they are going to speak to her to before we all meet.
She wants to turn the screws. She is just biding time until you hand her the screwdriver. Aka have that meeting and she has firmly in place what she wants.

*****Not a yes. Not a no.*****

Ever hear the term 'avoiding the question is answering the question.'

That is her word salad to feed you false hope, to get what she wants. Then when she has what she wants she discards you.

A solid yes is a yes. ANYTHING else is a no.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She said the was so afraid to see me with another women. Guess thats just bull****!!
 

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She is so Mad now. That tells me that she is still playing,she is the victim.
 

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that is something we should talk about when we have the cooperation talk with social services"==== get an attorney.
wanna see how she will spin it like he is dangerous to her and send him to jail?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Social services has nothing on me,neither preeschool. Both reports are about her.
 

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I asked her if we have a chanse. She said no.
Of course i asked her WHY but no answer there. Guess she wants the power.....
 

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I asked her if we have a chanse. She said no.
Of course i asked her WHY but no answer there. Guess she wants the power.....
Alfonso is currently drilling her out, hes ripped like a KFC one piece, but wont commit to her....your the guy she goes to when she needs that hit of feeling desired, and rub that ego
 

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I wrote: Is there no chanse between us?
We need to talk.
Her answer: Yes,we need to talk about our son.

Typical answer from her....is it a no?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alfonso is currently drilling her out, hes ripped like a KFC one piece, but wont commit to her....your the guy she goes to when she needs that hit of feeling desired, and rub that ego
There's this movie on Netflix called "Honeytrap" nice girl gets tangled up with a rapper whose not a good dude. Pumps and dumps and ends up hitting her. Shes smitten with him but he don't want her. She gets with a actual good dude whose together and a handsome man to make the rapper jealous. And it works. The rapper says if she wants to be his girl she'll setup the good dude to be murdered. And she does. Just goes to show how "feelings" can get someone fvcked up. Men used to murder over women.
 

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There's this movie on Netflix called "Honeytrap" nice girl gets tangled up with a rapper whose not a good dude. Pumps and dumps and ends up hitting her. Shes smitten with him but he don't want her. She gets with a actual good dude whose together and a handsome man to make the rapper jealous. And it works. The rapper says if she wants to be his girl she'll setup the good dude to be murdered. And she does. Just goes to show how "feelings" can get someone fvcked up. Men used to murder over women.
i will watch it. Cant believe 10 years ago , i thought women were precious lol
 

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i will watch it. Cant believe 10 years ago , i thought women were precious lol
There still are wholesome ones, normally married. The dating system produces competitive behaviors which drive selfishness, which results in the bullsh1t and games. Still guys here are saying they are able to date and to be the valued and desired man. So it depends upon you and your market.

The women have so many ways to destroy, rob and reduce men. So if she has any affiliations where they don't care about men she will employ these tools at her behest.
 

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We talked with social services on the phone.
My ex said she told to be Only friends during this long period when we did stuff togheter. That is a lie. I told her she "suddenly" got horny and invited another guy to **** her. She said she did not get horny.....She is still denying she did something wrong. She wants a relationship with me due to our son.

Ive been searching online for if she is still ****ing him but i cant find anything. Soon 3 months ago since my discovery so if they still are going on i Think it should be able to see online.
 

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ve been searching online for if she is still ****ing him but i cant find anything. Soon 3 months ago since my discovery so if they still are going on i Think it should be able to see online.
OP. why are you associating yourself with women involved with social services...

that the best you can do, the lowest hanging fruit available?

do you know how good women are at hiding everything.?

I went out with a girl the other day she took pics, but strategically made sure i wasnt in the pics.


the old me would have got all bent out of shape.

the new me knows whats going on, i play it cool.

guess what? She returns every week without fail. Radiates right back ontop of my D4ck
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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