“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women want you to be confused

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Women love it when men are confused. When a man doesn't know if a girl likes him or not, she can use that guy for attention and favours all day long. As soon as the guy finds out she's not interested, he's gone. This is why women try not to give a straight answer when the real answer is no.
 

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I totally disagree with OP.

Highly interested women want to be clear. Low interest women make it seem confusing because they string men along instead of out right rejecting them. This happens because weak minded and weak framed men tell them off or act like babies when a woman straight up reject them.

They avoid the conflict more than anything and that is why they have orbiters.
 

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I totally disagree with OP.

Highly interested women want to be clear. Low interest women make it seem confusing because they string men along instead of out right rejecting them. This happens because weak minded and weak framed men tell them off or act like babies when a woman straight up reject them.

They avoid the conflict more than anything and that is why they have orbiters.
High interest women make their interest clear and they make everything easy. Low interest women try to avoid directly saying no. As to their motivation, yes it can also be to avoid conflict but I don't think that's the main reason. Stringing a guy along can also lead to conflict in the longer term.
 

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She just let me know that if she feels Good Friday without COVID symptoms she wants to come to work again Saturday.

I tripped on this thread again.

Im fvcking going to invite her to my house Friday and make a move. Be very clear a beer at my place after work down or not. If she is, I take all risks. Anything but yes I got my answer.

I won’t wine if things go sour I’ll just update you guys and go along.
 

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I totally disagree with OP.

Highly interested women want to be clear. Low interest women make it seem confusing because they string men along instead of out right rejecting them. This happens because weak minded and weak framed men tell them off or act like babies when a woman straight up reject them.

They avoid the conflict more than anything and that is why they have orbiters.
OP has been posting a lot of these types of threads lately...starting to get the sense he is butthurt about his lack of options because he cares way too much about women power trips.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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She just let me know that if she feels Good Friday without COVID symptoms she wants to come to work again Saturday.

I tripped on this thread again.

Im fvcking going to invite her to my house Friday and make a move. Be very clear a beer at my place after work down or not. If she is, I take all risks. Anything but yes I got my answer.

I won’t wine if things go sour I’ll just update you guys and go along.
This is starting to get pathetic. You are obsessed with this woman.
 

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OP has been posting a lot of these types of threads lately...starting to get the sense he is butthurt about his lack of options because he cares way too much about women power trips.
I dated three others, fvcked one. Got another plate I also fvck. But op girl is just a quality girl , sweet and fun. Can’t help it. Got some others half interested but have their main man. Still call voice text me.
 

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I dated three others, fvcked one. Got another plate I also fvck. But op girl is just a quality girl , sweet and fun. Can’t help it. Got some others half interested but have their main man. Still call voice text me.
You are not OP in this thread...
 

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She just let me know that if she feels Good Friday without COVID symptoms she wants to come to work again Saturday.

I tripped on this thread again.

Im fvcking going to invite her to my house Friday and make a move. Be very clear a beer at my place after work down or not. If she is, I take all risks. Anything but yes I got my answer.

I won’t wine if things go sour I’ll just update you guys and go along.
Hey I see you like John Gotti. I met one of the Gotti's in Canada hung out in his cigar humidor he told me about his business idea for using Asian women to roll Cuban cigars in Newfoundland where it's neutral and send them to states for his club members. I honestly can't remember if John was a son or brother in his late 30's or early 40's at the time. About 30 yrs ago.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Nope. Ideally, it should be the other way around

To quote corey wayne... women are most attracted to men whose feelings are unclear

"He loves me, he loves me not"

It's women themselves who want to be confused
 

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Hey I see you like John Gotti. I met one of the Gotti's in Canada hung out in his cigar humidor he told me about his business idea for using Asian women to roll Cuban cigars in Newfoundland where it's neutral and send them to states for his club members. I honestly can't remember if John was a son or brother in his late 30's or early 40's at the time. About 30 yrs ago.
Gotti is a sick as bastard. So much balls, alpha criminal male to the bone. Everything to be the boss leader and nobody scares him. I respect that due the fact he was evil. Also a good business mind but too agressive to opponents.
 

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Gotti is a sick as bastard. So much balls, alpha criminal male to the bone. Everything to be the boss leader and nobody scares him. I respect that due the fact he was evil. Also a good business mind but too agressive to opponents.
Yes he was good guy my kind of people. In their meetings u would think they were mortal enemies w/ each other which was the warm up session before they 'talked'. A LOT of testosterone. I used to drive for a guy that put ppl together cuz in the 90's 2000's a new age was emerging due to the technology the old time mobsters were falling off getting left behind they would have to kind of merge in a way.

Not in that game anymore it's totally different. But it was fun meeting that line of characters. Gotta go...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Women love it when men are confused. When a man doesn't know if a girl likes him or not, she can use that guy for attention and favours all day long. As soon as the guy finds out she's not interested, he's gone. This is why women try not to give a straight answer when the real answer is no.
Would put it differently
They dont enjoy confusing (only if they suckers that's a whole different story bpd&deluded).
They do like to know if you getting them and non reactive, they enjoy being in a company of man who's understand them but have boundaries as well. They would use u when you giving them the choice though.

Know such experiences may be traumatizing but you learn from it alot considering their nature and that's a game changer
 

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This is clearly a situation where OP has lost the power

If a girl is sitting around laughing at you confused, she has all the control

And that's not good
 

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High interest women make their interest clear and they make everything easy. Low interest women try to avoid directly saying no. As to their motivation, yes it can also be to avoid conflict but I don't think that's the main reason. Stringing a guy along can also lead to conflict in the longer term.
Low interest strings him along for favors and preferential treatment. So theres a reason she keeps in contact.
 

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This is clearly a situation where OP has lost the power

If a girl is sitting around laughing at you confused, she has all the control

That's not good
That's good bro
That kind of girls are suckers and attention seekers
Acting that way shows their true value, she makes fun of her self only and probably would end her life depressed as well
 

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That's good bro
That kind of girls are suckers and attention seekers
Acting that way shows their true value, she makes fun of her self only and probably would end her life depressed as well
Giving her the power is taking the power from op who did nothing wrong
 
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