3 second rule says you should approach a girl as soon as you see her because if you don't you will get in your head and start overanalyzing the situation and end up taking no action.
I believe that to be true, but I just realized there is a deeper reason. The 3 second rule helps you find girls that like the true you. not this fake guy.
if you talk to a girl as soon as you see her, you are more likely to be yourself. you won't have time to polish yourself. you won't tell her what she wants to hear. then she can decide if she likes you based on the real you.
simplified example: let's say you hate swimming. you see a surfer girl who is a lifeguard in her spare time. your first inclination is to be yourself and tell her you hate swimming. but then you start analyzing the situation. You are trying to be liked. to accomplish that, you will tell her you love swimming. and it works! she likes you. guess what? she doesn't like YOU, she likes this fake guy who apparently likes swimming.
but if you are truthful, maybe this girl won't like you because you are not a swimmer. but eventually you will find that one girl whom you are exactly what she is looking for (weird sentence structure I know)....the guy of her dreams, someone who hates swimming. she likes YOU.
I believe that to be true, but I just realized there is a deeper reason. The 3 second rule helps you find girls that like the true you. not this fake guy.
if you talk to a girl as soon as you see her, you are more likely to be yourself. you won't have time to polish yourself. you won't tell her what she wants to hear. then she can decide if she likes you based on the real you.
simplified example: let's say you hate swimming. you see a surfer girl who is a lifeguard in her spare time. your first inclination is to be yourself and tell her you hate swimming. but then you start analyzing the situation. You are trying to be liked. to accomplish that, you will tell her you love swimming. and it works! she likes you. guess what? she doesn't like YOU, she likes this fake guy who apparently likes swimming.
but if you are truthful, maybe this girl won't like you because you are not a swimmer. but eventually you will find that one girl whom you are exactly what she is looking for (weird sentence structure I know)....the guy of her dreams, someone who hates swimming. she likes YOU.