Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"Micro aggressions"" means its illegal to feel physically dominant around her and she must feel more masculine. Basically outlawing men secure in their masculinity.Too much sensitivity, especially in America that is infecting the rest of the world. It's pretty pathetic personally.
Pretty soon it's going to be a crime to stare at a girl for more than a few seconds, or they would be able to report it as visual sexual assault.
Everything in the US is moving towards the feminist agenda/narrative.
I just saw a news piece on "micro-aggressions" and guess what? Everyone that was affected by that was females.
My $.02
No, that’s not true. All minorities experience micro aggressions.I just saw a news piece on "micro-aggressions" and guess what? Everyone that was affected by that was females.
What was the no pumping your own fuel really about? I worked there for 6 months.No, that’s not true. All minorities experience micro aggressions.
I’ll give a recent example. In New Jersey, we cant pump our own fuel (state law), so attendants do it for us. It’s first come first serve. I’ve had attendants walk right past the hood of my car to go try and service white women on the complete opposite side of the gas station despite them just pulling in. Of course I get out of the car and say something. Am I invisible?
I also had about a dozen pointless traffic stops that never result in a ticket. I’ve been pulled over for expired registration in a rental car (it obviously wasn’t expired).
It’s just an old law they won’t change because that would mean less jobs. And NJ is the land of suburban women, so they don’t want to do that shvt anyway.What was the no pumping your own fuel really about? I worked there for 6 months.
I can see that but it seems to hit the females the hardest. Guys just like you did, actually do and say something where as females will keep it bottled up(at least most of them). And all these new damn terms are made up by females.No, that’s not true. All minorities experience micro aggressions.
I’ll give a recent example. In New Jersey, we cant pump our own fuel (state law), so attendants do it for us. It’s first come first serve. I’ve had attendants walk right past the hood of my car to go try and service white women on the complete opposite side of the gas station despite them just pulling in. Of course I get out of the car and say something. Am I invisible?
I also had about a dozen pointless traffic stops that never result in a ticket. I’ve been pulled over for expired registration in a rental car (it obviously wasn’t expired).
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sapiosexual just means displays of hi intelligence gets their juices flowingI can see that but it seems to hit the females the hardest. Guys just like you did, actually do and say something where as females will keep it bottled up(at least most of them). And all these new damn terms are made up by females.
Back in the day, it would've just been part of racism and leave it at that.
Now the feminist and their narratives have all these sub category words for everything. It's really becoming annoying and hard to keep up with. Colorism, Texturism, Sapiosexual, Demisexual, etc... Fvck that...
Is it also illegal to do your own mechanic work?It’s just an old law they won’t change because that would mean less jobs. And NJ is the land of suburban women, so they don’t want to do that shvt anyway.
Theyre different than us. Women aren’t confrontational so they rely on other means like manipulation and deception. That’s just how they’re wired.I can see that but it seems to hit the females the hardest. Guys just like you did, actually do and say something where as females will keep it bottled up(at least most of them). And all these new damn terms are made up by females.
Back in the day, it would've just been part of racism and leave it at that.
Now the feminist and their narratives have all these sub category words for everything. It's really becoming annoying and hard to keep up with. Colorism, Texturism, Sapiosexual, Demisexual, etc... Fvck that...
That's interesting. Was the people at the New Jersey gas station white people or minorities themselves? Do you experience micro-aggressions from white people, or from ethnics or other blacks? I find I experience most microaggressions from ethnics because I think they have a racial inferiority complex. Are the police also white or are they ethnics? Too many ethnics in a position of power try to suck up to white people and they behave stupidly, thinking they are impressing their white counter-parts, but are in fact bringing down their own race.No, that’s not true. All minorities experience micro aggressions.
I’ll give a recent example. In New Jersey, we cant pump our own fuel (state law), so attendants do it for us. It’s first come first serve. I’ve had attendants walk right past the hood of my car to go try and service white women on the complete opposite side of the gas station despite them just pulling in. Of course I get out of the car and say something. Am I invisible?
I also had about a dozen pointless traffic stops that never result in a ticket. I’ve been pulled over for expired registration in a rental car (it obviously wasn’t expired).
Yes I looked it up when I first encountered it but point being these are all terms created by feminists and to support/further their agenda. That's my beef with it.Sapiosexual just means displays of hi intelligence gets their juices flowing
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The attendants were Middle Eastern. In the grand scheme of things these are micro aggressions so very subtle and not serious enough to ruin a day. Was just making the point they exist. Maybe as @Lookatu says, women are the ones making a huge deal out of it.That's interesting. Was the people at the New Jersey gas station white people or minorities themselves? Do you experience micro-aggressions from white people, or from ethnics or other blacks? I find I experience most microaggressions from ethnics because I think they have a racial inferiority complex. Are the police also white or are they ethnics? Too many ethnics in a position of power try to suck up to white people and they behave stupidly, thinking they are impressing their white counter-parts, but are in fact bringing down their own race.
This kind of thought process is generational. The younger generation has a different thought process as they grew up with the internet and acceptance of differences were more widely accepted compared to previous times.Too many ethnics in a position of power try to suck up to white people and they behave stupidly, thinking they are impressing their white counter-parts, but are in fact bringing down their own race.
Men can be sapiosexual as well. A woman looks even more beautiful to you and desireable thru actions and displays of intelligence.Yes I looked it up when I first encountered it but point being these are all terms created by feminists and to support/further their agenda. That's my beef with it.
Alex Williams at that.This kind of thought process is generational. The younger generation has a different thought process as they grew up with the internet and acceptance of differences were more widely accepted compared to previous times.
The comedian Hasan Minaj said it the best. The older generation did what it took to survive, the younger generation wants to live.
But then I can't help but to laugh everytime I have to call T-Mobile customer support and there's clearly an Indian dude with a heavy accent that tells me his name is Alex. LOL
I agree with you about men that can be sapiosexual. All I'm saying is that is a term just like many other terms lately that has been created by females and that's what's annoying. What's wrong with people just saying they are looking for someone smart? And I find it ironic that the same gals that say they are sapiosexual are on the dating apps swiping left on most guys based solely on their looks. Hypocritical if you ask me.Men can be sapiosexual as well. A woman looks even more beautiful to you and desireable thru actions and displays of intelligence.
I know what you mean about that agenda. So Google did a salary survey on themselves and found on average for the same job that the female gender was payed slightly more.
Working in corporate America i know for a fact Human Resources wouldn't allow a salary disparity based on gender to exist. So any arguments saying otherwise is bull.
Do we need to think about this every millisecond of our lives?. When we are hunting, working on cars, watching football, in the bar, in the weight room, by ourselves or with a group.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.