Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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Coming from a famous bodybuilding forum.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
For real thoughLooks like a dude
I don't know how those look, but why is he/she using a picnic blanket on a carpet. Also, that b*tch is not making any notes.14 year old gay dude
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Her back fits easily three times into my shoulders.People, men and women, come in all shapes and sizes...BUTT...male hips aren't only narrower, but they're shorter, too. A woman's hips are wider and longer...waist is higher. If that's a chick, she's built like a 14 year old sissy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Not necessarily, every man is different in the turn on department. Tits ass, legs, etc…Am i the only one that doesn't find asses attractive
There are no curves there. Where are the birthing hips? Doesn't have to be exaggerated, but there doesn't appear to be any pelvic flare at all. Where's the indented waist? There's no hourglass shape at all. The body lines are straight as a board. No side boob. And even the ankles look pretty thick for someone so thin, if it's a female.I have no reason to believe that she is a guy, actually I had sex with many girls with such proportion in eastern europe.
I like boobs.Not necessarily, every man is different in the turn on department. Tits ass, legs, etc…
A fully formed, plump and natural, yet perky statement…I like boobs.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Or maybe all this gender blending that's in vogue today has made us suspicious.Wheter we an agree or disagree about the proportion and ratio, saying that its a gay guy simply proves that some here are used to big land whales and their fat asses.
I agree that there are conflicting messages from the media, they equally support androginy and land whales while apparently they stop supporting healthy thin females.Or maybe all this gender blending that's in vogue today has made us suspicious.
But still, if I had to guess, I'd say it was a dude.
It's a trap!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.