"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
My Sparta
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
backseatjuan
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Yep, it's Donbas National Militia fighting Ukrainian nazis.
You have somewhat same type of sht coming to your country. Those vs these, others vs the others, etc. It was setup this way for a long time.
You have somewhat same type of sht coming to your country. Those vs these, others vs the others, etc. It was setup this way for a long time.
Look boss, Every white person that doesn't bow down to the leftists is called a Nazi and a racist here. You calling someone a Nazi, well not only do i not believe you, but I'm starting to wonder if the people that get called nazis are the only ones who would have my back. I mean I've met Aryan brotherhood members, I've met at Aryan Nation members, and one kkk member being on the streets and have given me work, money, they've backed me up. Maybe it's not about hating other races, and you can love your own at the same time.
Florida has a lot of white supremacists. One time at a job I stared pulled off his shirt, big ole swastika on his chest. Another guy I met in a detox had one on the web in between his index finger an thumb, and on his tricept. All of these guys have been very good to me, especially in times I was alone with nothing and struggling. They're not bad people.
My road dog and a good friend of mine was Aryan nation, a prison gang, was locked up for 9 years. We hustled the streets together, shared everything we had, did everything together and looked out for each other. I just don't see them as bad people because they've been good too me. To me the enemy are people with even remotely antiwhite sentiment, or who use terms like "white privelege" those people deserve the rope I don't care who they are or what they are.
I don't even consider myself racist. I have black friends. I've worked with a lot of central Americans and a lot of them are wholesome family oriented people. It's just white people are under attack in the west, it's very real, and it should be stopped.
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backseatjuan
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You serve to be killed. I'm not even going to waste my time replying to you any further. Die in not knowing what's happening in the world and around you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
They are real, They really look very dangerous. But I think it's cool. For some reason, the discussion of your Sparta reminded me of a couple of Jokes about the army . It seems to me, although I have never been in the army, that in each of these jokes there is some kind of real story that led us to a paradoxical or sophistic inference that amused us. How do you think?