"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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i think most men cant handle being co.cky and funny

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If c&f is not naturally part of your personality, I wouldn’t go there.

It can be great for some guys, but it’s really hard to fake without it sounding cringe.
nah used rarely and not repetetively (as in not repeating same text) can be ok...
 

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Being c.ocky requires a certain degree of narcassism and that's not something you can fake since it's literally a personality flaw.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A lot of men are simply just boring guys. I am a guy with a big personality and wildly entertaining, so I have a difficult time relating to this. There are often men I meet that bore me. Boring guys are generally neither coccky nor funny.

Many relationships diminish in quality and end because a lot of men are boring. Women require more entertainment to attract and to maintain a relationship than they did 20 or 30 years ago. In the last 20-30 years, men haven't gotten substantially more interesting.
 
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