Hey guys ...so i am from this southeast asian counrty Nepal...and i am learning about red pill and all...so there is this girl i like and her iol is pretty high ...she text me back superfast ...but the thing is that she is one of my ex friend so when i start taking things in sexual way she always told me that i am her friends ex and u know other stuff like that.. i am fairly good looking have bang girls good looking than her ...5'7 in height which is quite tall in my region [average height in my country is 5'4] .. also i am seeing this another girl ...so i know i am not in one it is and other blue pill stuff...but i like her though...so what should i do any suggestion guys ...first thread so sorry for any mistake....and one last thing ..i know she have dated guys with low smv than me .....and i gues she would have dated me if i wasnt her friend ex ..is she speaking the truth??? Any suggestion guys
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What should i do??
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"You are my friend's ex."
"We are friends."
"We shouldn't date or make things sexual."
" i don't know if this is right."
"It isn't you it's me."
It is all word salad. Girls can give you 100 excuses as to why you shouldn't date. Bottom line is she is say no no matter what packaging she wraps it in
If she was sexually attracted to you she wouldn't care if you were her sisters ex, she would want you
Pay no attention to the word salad. It is all the same result.
Go date other women.
feh one thing I know for sure, if you did anything right with your ex and she told her friends, her friends would jump on your hip the moment you are single (some wouldn't even wait for that to happen).
also take note words means little action do, if she says you shouldn't do anything because you are her firends ex, but she is still goign out with you and making out with you, that means nothing, words to make her guilty free, its all on you.
so again all you need to do is ask her out and scalate, if she says you guys shouldn't do it by still open her legs, what you think she want?
also take note words means little action do, if she says you shouldn't do anything because you are her firends ex, but she is still goign out with you and making out with you, that means nothing, words to make her guilty free, its all on you.
so again all you need to do is ask her out and scalate, if she says you guys shouldn't do it by still open her legs, what you think she want?
True abundance mentality doesn't have you questioning gals or thinking about it too much to this level. You just move onto the ones that gravitates towards you and makes things easier. I'm not sure how many singles there are around where you live but I would next her and just keep looking at others. Flow with the river, don't try to swim upstream...
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Get @stringpuller in here to teach you a lesson about woman-ese.
Facts, I once dated an ex her sister. Trust me when a woman is truly attracted to you sexually all honour and pride she has will fly out the window. Nexttttt.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Isn't this a **** test? I wouldn't take it as a rejection.
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"so i know i am not in one it is and other blue pill stuff...but i like her though..."
Wake up. Don't lie to yourself. You created an account on a internet forum just to ask something about her. You lost your frame. Vanish. If she reachs you, be clear about your sexual desire and set a date. If it don't work, forget her existence.
Do not orbit her, be the ****ing sun.
Wake up. Don't lie to yourself. You created an account on a internet forum just to ask something about her. You lost your frame. Vanish. If she reachs you, be clear about your sexual desire and set a date. If it don't work, forget her existence.
Do not orbit her, be the ****ing sun.
Thanks for all the suggestion guys ...appreciate it ..idk whether its **** test or not...but i dont have time for such things and i am not gonna orbit her anymore....i got one last qsn ..her friend that i actually dated was one of the plates i was spinning and when she asked us to be exclusive ..i told her no....can that be the reason ???
idk is it??? If it is what should i do??
yeah i was thinking of doing the same thing...but there is lockdown in my country maybe after all the lockdown ends
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thanks a lot dude ...man that was a hell of suggestion... appreciate it...and again thanks for showing that fact to me