"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First off OP, this is the wrong model. You can loose two pounds a week easily. but not that way. Sure, at first it will work but you will spring back.
Too much cardio will wreck you. In fact it’s the worst part of your plan.

Read “The primal Blueprint”. Then read Primal Endurance if you are interested in endurance feats.

Too many workouts a week is the worst thing possible. It doesn’t work. Too much cardio is the nail in the coffin failure. In two months you will be heavier and fatter than you are now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don’t listen to these sissies. You *CAN* build muscle and lose fat at the same time. You just can’t do it at the rate you desire, esp if you’re older and/or are near your physiological peak in terms of the amount of muscle you have. You can burn fat quickly, but you won’t be able to build muscle unless you’re young. You can only build muscle while burning fat if you have a little bit of excess fat, work REALLY hard in the gym, and burn fat SLOWLY (not fast). And even then, how much muscle you already have, your age, and how close you are to your physiological maximum will also affect this as well.

So, how to do it ‘correctly’? Fasting. Only give yourself a 1-2 hour window each day for you to eat, preferably 3 - 4 hours before you go to bed. Your entire caloric intake for the day should be within that time frame. This is because fasting increases HGH, testosterone, and cortisol. HGH shoots up like 500x the normal amount (or something like that). These hormones begin to rise at the 16-hour mark of not eating, and continue to rise until they peak at the 24-hour mark (to which they then decrease at the same rate that they rose). Most of this increase occurs within the 18-24 hour range though.

You could also try not eating at all for a few days. These hormones will spike up again around the same time, except that they will rise much higher, but for not as long. The exception to this is when you’re asleep though, HGH and testosterone should go up during then.

Another thing: cortisol gets a bad rep for being the ‘stress’ hormone with a lot of articles saying that cortisol increases fat storing. But the thing is, that’s only true when insulin is present. If cortisol levels are elevated when insulin is not present, then cortisol will actually increase lypolysis (fat burning) instead.

Furthermore, when fasting, adiponectin levels rise. Adiponectin is a hormone that also increases fat burning.

And no, you don’t have to worry about losing muscle. The test and HGH increase is to prevent that. You preserve ~4x as much muscle when fasting as when you just do a regular cutting diet.

If you’re gonna take a supplement, omega-3s and L-Carnitine are good. Omega-3s increase anabolic activity, and carnitine is basically a fat transporter (makes it easier for your body to actually burn the fat).


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For guys, never get so fixated on weight. As we all know muscle weighs more than fat. Look at and observe how you look instead and how you fit into your clothes. Weight training works wonders for guys and will burn more fat/calories when you are stationary as well. With cardio machines, you only burn the calories when you're actually doing it, plus if you over do it, you WILL raise your cortisol levels which will bring down your testosterone levels. You ever wonder why you only see good looking YOUNGER males on the treadmill? Have you seen any older guys on the treadmill slaving away? I'm not saying cardio is bad at all but just don't over do it where your cortisol levels are spiking and thus defeating the purpose of being a man(low t). Generally series of short sprints are better the older you get than long distance running. It definitely preserves your joints too.
 

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It may be tough to now with the virus and all but I would go to gym lift and then play 2-3 games of full court basketball(gym has to have court obviously) ..

I’d do this 3-4 nights a week, and then lift like 1-2 days without playing ball and body fat just would fall off. You don’t even have to be good, if you can hustle and get a rebound and get back on defense people won’t mind playing with you.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For guys, never get so fixated on weight. As we all know muscle weighs more than fat. Look at and observe how you look instead and how you fit into your clothes. Weight training works wonders for guys and will burn more fat/calories when you are stationary as well. With cardio machines, you only burn the calories when you're actually doing it, plus if you over do it, you WILL raise your cortisol levels which will bring down your testosterone levels. You ever wonder why you only see good looking YOUNGER males on the treadmill? Have you seen any older guys on the treadmill slaving away? I'm not saying cardio is bad at all but just don't over do it where your cortisol levels are spiking and thus defeating the purpose of being a man(low t). Generally series of short sprints are better the older you get than long distance running. It definitely preserves your joints too.
 
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