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Master Don Juan
I recently saw this reality show (other than that the intelligence was on the very very lows) it amazed me of how some social dynamics work .
Take for example Rhonda , David and Sharron . Meanwhile David was the first to pick up Rhonda , she was mutually interested to him plus their conversation was flowing very well but David didn't make a move because he didn’t wanted to be seen as thirsty or something like that .
Moments later Sharron shows up and is trying to pick up Rhonda . Obviously there is some awkwardness in the interaction ,convo wasn’t flowing so well but Sharron was confident enough to tell her that they should sit together .Rhonda complied and Sharron was in a “ shooting range” and very well took the shot and made out successfully with her .
Later when they asked Rhonda how it was , she was telling how everything clicked with Sharron and there was almost perfect flow . As for David she had to say the opposite , that the conversation wasn’t flowing .Quite the opposite from how actually both situations went .
What do we learn from this ? That no matter how well something seems to flow or not , in the end escalation is what makes the difference. If there is already initial interest , and you don’t escalate it’s game over . If you escalate even when the situation ain’t flowing as you want , the female is going to convince herself that everything went as it should even when in reality it didn't. You are the winner in the end nevertheless. Sharron seemed to be the alpha and David was just a nice guy that got no laid .
Take for example Rhonda , David and Sharron . Meanwhile David was the first to pick up Rhonda , she was mutually interested to him plus their conversation was flowing very well but David didn't make a move because he didn’t wanted to be seen as thirsty or something like that .
Moments later Sharron shows up and is trying to pick up Rhonda . Obviously there is some awkwardness in the interaction ,convo wasn’t flowing so well but Sharron was confident enough to tell her that they should sit together .Rhonda complied and Sharron was in a “ shooting range” and very well took the shot and made out successfully with her .
Later when they asked Rhonda how it was , she was telling how everything clicked with Sharron and there was almost perfect flow . As for David she had to say the opposite , that the conversation wasn’t flowing .Quite the opposite from how actually both situations went .
What do we learn from this ? That no matter how well something seems to flow or not , in the end escalation is what makes the difference. If there is already initial interest , and you don’t escalate it’s game over . If you escalate even when the situation ain’t flowing as you want , the female is going to convince herself that everything went as it should even when in reality it didn't. You are the winner in the end nevertheless. Sharron seemed to be the alpha and David was just a nice guy that got no laid .