mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Just "power hungry" like the "greedy pig" of some men. Actually they are "GREEDY PIGS", just happen to be in a female body.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Simps, cucks and fine women
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
An old female I knew....
It was important to her to keep a dude single and available for unpaid labour in the family business with no offer of partnership or co-ownership. The sneakiest I've seen in my life.
Fame is the important side effect of gaining power. If others like her enough, she subconsciously thinks she will also…
ohhh, omg.
That's deep. How can someone be that low esteem but that clever.
What a long, convoluted method of increasing one's selfesteem.
How about just using S.M.A.R.T. principles to achieve goals with rewards/visual reminders of said achievements to gain higher self esteem?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Some folks enjoy being pirates. It's who they are.
like the rich thief.....'you're already rich, why keep stealing?'
So, I conclude, not only more advanced screening skills to recognise the preferred giving nature of a personality over selfish greediness, but also 'calling out on their bad behaviour' skills must be practiced on women and all people, really.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not even that. If someone in your environment revealed themselves to be that you have to accept that is who they are
if I can't immediately change my environment you mean? like work or a leased apartment or something tied to you by money.
I actually do subscribe to the "Acceptance is the answer" belief.
Just haven't thought about that in awhile, thanks for reminder.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If a lady have been a "ho" or multidating for the last ten years why should i expect her to value loyalty and want to LTR?
The same for females is if the guy cheated on and dogged out each woman before you for over 20 yrs why should you expect him to be a loyal loving man to you?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
true dat, both cases.
Iron rules state you don't tell about past relationships or slay count so....
Screening for loyalty has to come after screening for honesty anyways, or you'll never get accurate character reveals.
Example: someone can pretend they are a loyal character but with the first lie, no other info is accurate.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They would have to find out your traits outside of you if they really want to know what they are getting into. People know and a few people will tell you the truth.
you wrote same as me only different at same time(see my edit^)
very good mrgoodstuff, no lady will take your power again. Let's hope Tyson is the same.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Tyson has a loyal wife now and is a family man. I'm sure after going thru all that hell behind women, ,that he found a stable and reasonable loving wife.
Congrats to him! I haven't kept up to date. Only googled the Robin you wrote about in the start of this thread.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Did you look at the links? He also had the rape case with "Desiree Washington", who invited him to her room at 2AM for sex, it was stated. Went to jail behind that. Often times, when someone is receiving a "hail storm" of negativity you are a target and it's done on purpose. If you are a target you need to respect that you are a target and figure out what is targeting you. Your ego needs to be able to accept it's often people close or tho talk to you or who come into contact with you.
Since you and other members warned me to watch more carefully, I HAVE noticed this. I don't get why, but in my personal life, the why doesn't matter so much as being aware of what and who its coming from.
I think the series of events in the past 6 months or so has sharpened my perception and survival instinct. I'm getting back my competitive edge in 'business' (money related environments) that I had living back in the more populated and competitive eastern part of the country.
You only get a break from the hypervigilance when meditating.
The links look like regular typing but in amber, I didn't tap on them yet, no
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
I was talking to a girl I know, and she sent me a picture of her body after a tanning. She said it was one of her guys that paid to her.
She also said that one of those guys that bang her gave her a new iphone.
She said its a way better live like that than staying with one guy knowing he will cheat her... At least, she was getting something from it.
She is graduating in psychology and she has some feminist tendencies.
And Im pretty sure she say to those guys that she is exclusive.
Not saying its wrong... Its an exchange. Money for sex. Reality is far different from those romantic movies.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Your targeted for being aware and your potential and knowledge threatens someone.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Those end up using people in general and being a bad friend.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.