Stop looking for a wife. It seems like a law of nature that looking for a person to marry is doomed to fail. You're skipping a few steps by looking for a wife, you might end up marrying just to divorce later as the act of marrying took priority over what actually matters in a marriage.
You should look for a woman you truly enjoy spending time with, then you should gradually take the relationship more seriously if you continue to enjoy her over a longer period of time. You should know her well inside and out a good while before marriage is even a thought on your mind.
Your fear of missing out will be your downfall, be careful.
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I know generally in Asian cultures, they want you to get good grades, go to a good school, get a good job, and find a wife and make babies. Your life path is already planned out by them and culture and the pressure is definitely there to please your parents and conform to traditional culture. But ultimately, you have to do what's right for you and be smart about it.
If all you concentrate is the end goal without any real strategy in getting there, you will fail most likely. Do what you can to be a better person and attract like minded gals and take things one step at a time. You still have time being in your early thirties.
Just remember, it is better to marry later and have a better chance at success than to hastily marry young and end up in divorce or misery.
You will always be able to make babies no matter how old you are. Marketing wise as far as looks, continue taking care of yourself and improving yourself and you should still be marketable to younger and fertile gals until you're 45 or so. Women are the ones that have the biological clock ticking, not you. Remember that
