sangheilios
Master Don Juan
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- Sep 25, 2018
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The past couple weeks I've been experimenting with tinder, I've tried it in the past and there really wasn't much on there. However, due to this pandemic and with everything being closed I found that there was a significantly higher number of women on there than what I had seen in the past. As usual, many of the profiles were clearly fake, bots or what have you. I ended up getting over a dozen matches, a handful of them ended up being catfish profiles, albeit actual people on the other end. Many simply didn't respond, which was normal. However, I ended up having a long interaction with one in particular, which went over to snapchat.
She turned out to be much heavier and less attractive than what her tinder pics suggested, she was upfront about it before we even discussed meeting so I was able to avoid an awkward reveal. At one point we were talking about the dating scene in our area, which sucks, and I talked about some of my experiences. I had asked her what her experience was like from tinder, which I found to be very interesting.
She said that she very seldom swipes right and that she is very particular with what she looks for in a man on tinder and other dating apps. She elaborated on what it was that she looked for and what she avoided, such as a man looking to "nice", etc. Normally this would be a bit shocking to me, as a woman who is quite a bit overweight and not pretty despite being in her mid 20s, was this picky.
Taking this input from her then made it clear that if a 2 like this was so selective what is it like with a woman who is average, cute and then quite attractive?
OLD allows these women to potentially play well out of their league, so a real life attractive male may not even get results from a 3 or 4.
She turned out to be much heavier and less attractive than what her tinder pics suggested, she was upfront about it before we even discussed meeting so I was able to avoid an awkward reveal. At one point we were talking about the dating scene in our area, which sucks, and I talked about some of my experiences. I had asked her what her experience was like from tinder, which I found to be very interesting.
She said that she very seldom swipes right and that she is very particular with what she looks for in a man on tinder and other dating apps. She elaborated on what it was that she looked for and what she avoided, such as a man looking to "nice", etc. Normally this would be a bit shocking to me, as a woman who is quite a bit overweight and not pretty despite being in her mid 20s, was this picky.
Taking this input from her then made it clear that if a 2 like this was so selective what is it like with a woman who is average, cute and then quite attractive?
OLD allows these women to potentially play well out of their league, so a real life attractive male may not even get results from a 3 or 4.