"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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have any of you traveled since this the virus had taken effect

eli77

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want to know if you have traveled internationally or domestic in the last month and how did it play out:)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Heads up I did make a thread about some Dj's in the past and their travels. LOL I recieved zero responses. I have been doing some group volunteering across the city and has become strenuous to keep attendance. My attendance has been good for inner city travel. Now they started campaign to stay home. Way harder to keep going. For the end of the year had a trip to France scheduled. Hopefully by end of year a small trip to France might be possible...
 

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I just got back from south america when the virus was already taking its hold here in the states. I had a flight cancelled, which I got credit for and got to take an earlier flight, and they lost my luggage and delivered it at 3 am to my doorstep. Top tip: fly Alaska airlines.

Some friends of mine got stuck in Italy on lockdown, they spent a LOT of money to fly home and wasted most of it.

I had a trip planned for July of this year, it has been cancelled.
 

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No travel here, they say stay home, that’s where I be…only low traffic level grocery trips. Using my extra free time to do some car polishing and maintenance as well as doing chores on the home front I’ve put off from previous time scarcity…
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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only low traffic level grocery trips.
How are you finding low traffic grocery times? The grocery stores where I live have been jammed at all hours since this began.
Somebody must be profiting off of this, because it's not just a run on necessities anymore. People are emptying the shelves of practically everything.
 

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How are you finding low traffic grocery times? The grocery stores where I live have been jammed at all hours since this began.
Somebody must be profiting off of this, because it's not just a run on necessities anymore. People are emptying the shelves of practically everything.
It’s down to basically TP around here, saw 8 customers buying it todays trip, single big bags, not multiples, one man wearing a mask that wouldn’t stop dirt, the panic level is starting to subside here though. I prefer my neighborhood Aldi lately over the big boy grocers. I usually go 2-3pm…
 

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No traveling at all for me other than to grocery stores or directly to a plate's house. The beach is a 3 mile bike ride away, so I will spend some time on the boardwalk there. (Unlike Florida, New Jersey does not have beach weather at this time)
 
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