Had awesome time at festival but didn't know how to escalate

[Thetruthwillsetyoufree]

This weekend was pretty awesome, but also left confused, hoping you guys can help in terms of festi/dancing game. I got some girls to grind on me from our friends group. Got to grinding and hands on hips/belly etc with both of these chicks who are in our friends group at different times of night but didn't know how to close. First time being in the zone or flow whatever, where I'm just purely enjoying myself and making everyone happy, which I heard is like the most important thing.

How long till I escalate and how would I escalate with all our friends around watching, I feel like they wouldn't want to do it with them around, do I need to isolate? And how would I do that (at a festival or club/house party etc?)

Another confusing part was one of the chicks in our friends group with just me and her left on dance floor at like 3am was pretty keen for a while grooving and grinding with me super late into the night but started to show disinterest (kissed her neck a couple of times but she never turned towards me for regular kiss, never holding eye contact, note this particular stage was lit up not very dark). I was getting pretty tired from dancing for like 8 hours with our mates earlier and didn't have that same energy/vibe from before. She picked up on that (or did I just take to long to make a move? How would I do that?), started to make more space between us. She was kinda unsure what she wanted to do, I suggested go back to tents for the night but she was worried about her friend that disappeared. Then started talking about her bf that was at the festi, first time hearing this all weekend btw, and that he's sleeping in his truck instead of their shared tent?..?. and she wanted someone to keep her warm overnight and wanted me to go to her tent.... I did and we spooned but she never really had any openings for wanting to kiss and escalate, like no prolonged eye contact, face position etc (friend zoned?). It was so crazy that I just spooned her the whole night and nothing else. What do you think were my biggest issues here, like when to kiss, how to tell etc? SHould I isolate them, just suggest going back to get drinks or to take a break, different stage etc?

Had lots of fun which is the main thing, and finally figured out how to be that guy that just has fun and naturally pulls girls, it was eye opening to say the least. Can't wait to go again.

Thanks for your help

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

You ****ed up homie. You need to strike when the iron's hot. Should've just made out with her infront of your friends. You're in a festival, not a church. Ain't nobody batting an eye when you make out with someone. Not making a move murders any attraction girls have for you unless you're some kingpin player who gets them to make the first move.

 

[Thetruthwillsetyoufree]

You ****ed up homie. You need to strike when the iron's hot. Should've just made out with her infront of your friends. You're in a festival, not a church. Ain't nobody batting an eye when you make out with someone. Not making a move murders any attraction girls have for you unless you're some kingpin player who gets them to make the first move.

Haha yeah knew I ****ed it up obviously.. how would you escalate from grinding to kissing on a dance floor? Found it hard to try and get them to face me when we dancing and facing the DJ eh

 

[Ohso-Phresh]

This weekend was pretty awesome, but also left confused, hoping you guys can help in terms of festi/dancing game. I got some girls to grind on me from our friends group. Got to grinding and hands on hips/belly etc with both of these chicks who are in our friends group at different times of night but didn't know how to close. First time being in the zone or flow whatever, where I'm just purely enjoying myself and making everyone happy, which I heard is like the most important thing.

How long till I escalate and how would I escalate with all our friends around watching, I feel like they wouldn't want to do it with them around, do I need to isolate? And how would I do that (at a festival or club/house party etc?)

Another confusing part was one of the chicks in our friends group with just me and her left on dance floor at like 3am was pretty keen for a while grooving and grinding with me super late into the night but started to show disinterest (kissed her neck a couple of times but she never turned towards me for regular kiss, never holding eye contact, note this particular stage was lit up not very dark). I was getting pretty tired from dancing for like 8 hours with our mates earlier and didn't have that same energy/vibe from before. She picked up on that (or did I just take to long to make a move? How would I do that?), started to make more space between us. She was kinda unsure what she wanted to do, I suggested go back to tents for the night but she was worried about her friend that disappeared. Then started talking about her bf that was at the festi, first time hearing this all weekend btw, and that he's sleeping in his truck instead of their shared tent?..?. and she wanted someone to keep her warm overnight and wanted me to go to her tent.... I did and we spooned but she never really had any openings for wanting to kiss and escalate, like no prolonged eye contact, face position etc (friend zoned?). It was so crazy that I just spooned her the whole night and nothing else. What do you think were my biggest issues here, like when to kiss, how to tell etc? SHould I isolate them, just suggest going back to get drinks or to take a break, different stage etc?

Had lots of fun which is the main thing, and finally figured out how to be that guy that just has fun and naturally pulls girls, it was eye opening to say the least. Can't wait to go again.

Thanks for your help

Were you or she riollin’ or trippin’?

 

[Thetruthwillsetyoufree]

I think you waited around for way too many openings bro. I would have at least tried something when cuddling with a chick, openings or not.

Surely you felt the sexual tension with your crotch pressed up against her a$$. Why did you need her to turn around so damn bad? I would have just grinded on her to ping how sexual she was.

Oh mate she grinded on my hard-on for quite a while. Just didnt know what next step was there

 

[Thetruthwillsetyoufree]

Were you or she riollin’ or trippin’?

both just rolling on mols

 

[Thetruthwillsetyoufree]

what the....lol. I don’t remember the last time a chick grinded on me in bed and I wasn’t naked.

The last time that happened, I just told her I was taking my pants off.

Then I started fingering her. After about 15 minutes of dry humping and fingering we finally had sex.

Foreplay is essential. She’s not just going to be wet and ready when you get into bed. You need to ramp up the sexual tension.

Ohh wait you maybe getting confused, I wrote this up the day after I got back with like 3hours sleep. This chick we're talking about was at the dance floor grinding not the tent haha. But that being said also with the other chick I could've tried that yes, understand what you meant now.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Haha yeah knew I ****ed it up obviously.. how would you escalate from grinding to kissing on a dance floor? Found it hard to try and get them to face me when we dancing and facing the DJ eh

I mean are you like 12? You simply turn her around, put your hand on her face and kiss her.

 

[Ohso-Phresh]

Ohh wait you maybe getting confused, I wrote this up the day after I got back with like 3hours sleep. This chick we're talking about was at the dance floor grinding not the tent haha. But that being said also with the other chick I could've tried that yes, understand what you meant now.

Your post is confusing.

How one does anything is how do everything.

It’s perfect that you are confused.

Are you a virgin?
Grow up with mom as single parent?