jnMissouri
Master Don Juan
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- Nov 2, 2014
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It really is amazing how blind he is to this, how his emotions hide it from him. He spent 25K last year on a girl that has a BF who is a broke bartender. He get's a kiss here and there that's it, while her hot boyfriend bangs her in his apartment. He then bought her a 20K ring to propose, she said no, she wants to see the bartender thing through first. I'm like dude, you are a back up plan and gift guy to her. You buy alllll the gifts he can't afford while she sleeps with him. I told him to stop with the gifts. He did and exactly what I told him would happen happened. She tried to charm him back with sweet talk about how connected she feels to him and how she wants him, and he fell for it, right back to the gifts...His response to me? Well it took 3 years for my friend X to bang her. I'm like, dude she told you at 31 she has slept with over 300 men...you really think she makes most guys wait 3 years or buy her gifts? Delusional AF!!!
So he meets 1 other girl that gave him the time of day. Never any relationship, barely/allegedly slept with her, and she walked away. He was so heart broken after....wait for it....6 weeks. Again, this was one with expensive gifts and $800 dinners...So he is all telling me that she told him it's not him, it's her, she only feels close to her brother and hiking partner, that she doesn't feel anything with him, etc. He's like, she's open to hanging out with me still, if I call her to hang out she will because she said she would, she wants to hang out. I'm like, women who want to hang out don't give you the friends speech and "break up" with you....
Fast forward to now. Dating a girl who has a bf. She is 45, divorced, has a kid. She has hung out with him a few times, no sex. Yet she goes over to her bf's apartment and sucks him off and leaves. He doesn't respond to her texts sometimes and she asks my friend for advice for it. Just days prior he was telling me how she is thinking of leaving the bf because "she is so into me!".
I couldn't take it anymore. I've told him some of this before but he just doesn't get it. Girl 1 is just using him for gifts, she sleeps with random dudes for a cheeseburger and here he is buying her 5K handbags, 3K shoues, Botox, etc. I tell him the FIRST girl that gave him the time of day he tries to put a ring on her finger and she says no, keeps him around for gifts while she sleeps with her bf. I could understand if she was married, hasn't slept with many men, religious, etc. But come on man, none of that applies here!!!
I tell him the 1 girl he ACTUALLY slept with last year gave him the friends speech and he thinks she wants to hang out still...Bro, girls who want to hang out don't give you the friends speech and stop talking to you.
So the current girl, has not even slept with her, ex cheerleader/passed around middle aged single mom...expensive dinners, gifts, etc. He thinks she is so into him after 3 dates that she wants to leave her bf for him. I'm like, dude, she goes to his apartment and sucks him off then leaves. He cheats on her (it's obvious) and doesn't respond to her texts sometimes and then she comes to YOU for advice on what to do...you are delusional and this girl has NO interest in you...
That was a week ago and he has not spoken to me since. I've never met anyone as delusional as this guy. It's like he wants to believe things that the evidence doesn't support.
I will say his no contact game is on point, but other than that, I have waaaay better luck than him and slept with many more women than his 1 of last year. He was useful for keeping me on the no contact train with a few ex's last year, is it worth to try to rekindle this friendship?
So he meets 1 other girl that gave him the time of day. Never any relationship, barely/allegedly slept with her, and she walked away. He was so heart broken after....wait for it....6 weeks. Again, this was one with expensive gifts and $800 dinners...So he is all telling me that she told him it's not him, it's her, she only feels close to her brother and hiking partner, that she doesn't feel anything with him, etc. He's like, she's open to hanging out with me still, if I call her to hang out she will because she said she would, she wants to hang out. I'm like, women who want to hang out don't give you the friends speech and "break up" with you....
Fast forward to now. Dating a girl who has a bf. She is 45, divorced, has a kid. She has hung out with him a few times, no sex. Yet she goes over to her bf's apartment and sucks him off and leaves. He doesn't respond to her texts sometimes and she asks my friend for advice for it. Just days prior he was telling me how she is thinking of leaving the bf because "she is so into me!".
I couldn't take it anymore. I've told him some of this before but he just doesn't get it. Girl 1 is just using him for gifts, she sleeps with random dudes for a cheeseburger and here he is buying her 5K handbags, 3K shoues, Botox, etc. I tell him the FIRST girl that gave him the time of day he tries to put a ring on her finger and she says no, keeps him around for gifts while she sleeps with her bf. I could understand if she was married, hasn't slept with many men, religious, etc. But come on man, none of that applies here!!!
I tell him the 1 girl he ACTUALLY slept with last year gave him the friends speech and he thinks she wants to hang out still...Bro, girls who want to hang out don't give you the friends speech and stop talking to you.
So the current girl, has not even slept with her, ex cheerleader/passed around middle aged single mom...expensive dinners, gifts, etc. He thinks she is so into him after 3 dates that she wants to leave her bf for him. I'm like, dude, she goes to his apartment and sucks him off then leaves. He cheats on her (it's obvious) and doesn't respond to her texts sometimes and then she comes to YOU for advice on what to do...you are delusional and this girl has NO interest in you...
That was a week ago and he has not spoken to me since. I've never met anyone as delusional as this guy. It's like he wants to believe things that the evidence doesn't support.
I will say his no contact game is on point, but other than that, I have waaaay better luck than him and slept with many more women than his 1 of last year. He was useful for keeping me on the no contact train with a few ex's last year, is it worth to try to rekindle this friendship?