Men have been brainwashed by society to think that “sharing his emotions with a woman shows vulnerability and makes his relationship stronger.” Its a con job. Men can be successful with women by NOT revealing their emotions or showing weakness. That way a woman has no ammunition to emotionally abuse him.
Men, do not give women the tools to destroy you.
This is backwards thinking and implies some sort of suppression or hiding of your true feelings is the best path. It also implies that if a women understands how you feel she'll have some abusive power over you. Both are wrong imo.
Strength comes from vulnerability. I don't hesitate to tell a woman how I'm feeling about her or about anything, even if I'm feeling weak. if I've made a decision about something I'll voice that decision. If she likes me less or leaves then so be it. If she tries to leverage what she just learned against me then she loses all points and is never seen or heard from again.
Actively not showing emotions is how you cultivate resentment and have a bunch of terrible STRs since you suck at communicating. The focus shouldn't be on actively not showing emotion, it should be on other aspects of life until the girl and all her drama seem trivial. Then you won't be emotional or dramatic
naturally. Nothing she says gets under your skin and all decisions with her become no brainers. You start to think big picture (moving in, kids, etc) because the small stuff barely registers, as it should.
And what a woman thinks or does with the sensitive stuff I tell her speaks volumes about her, not me. I own what I say and do, if she can't respect that and what comes of it then we're simply incompatible. This applies to all people in my life.