Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
It may see stupid, but I would like to hear some opinions.
I'm on a LTR for one year, and this week something weird happened... the same time it happened, I just felt something might be wrong. But btw, I kind of tried to believe that I'm wrong. I don't like to believe into something until I'm sure about.
A time ago I post here about intuition and a guy that as she said "I don't know how this guy appeared on my instagram, I didn't follower him". It's her brother's friend (he was a good looking guy). This is kind of weird cause I've been around this guy sometimes and he look at me on a strange way. She swore to me that she didn't had anything with this guy. So, I moved on. But I didn't believe that... I pretty sure there is something.
So, this week she sent me a good night message really quickly at 8:30 pm and then just disappear. Whatsapp 2 checked icon doesnt appear, it was only one when I answered her... and I felt weird because she never did that. She always kept her wifi on. Her explanation was: "I was feeling so stressed out and tired about job, also I was feeling jealous because you were posting some workout stories on your instagram, then I didn't want to keep my internet on.".
I tried to called her, but he changed her phone and she said she need to get a new mobile chip for that. So I couldn't consider this.
But this thing of turning off the wifi, she always slept with it on... I know cause most times I slept later and I sent something to her... The message was with 2 checked icons all time. I don't have such a bad memory.
So, as crazy as it might seem... I think that: She started to become jealous because I've started to workout again, then idk but she felt threatened if some girl could possibly see that story and maybe go talk to me. So this emotion made her cheat on me like a revenge. I'm not saying this happened, but it was the first idea that came in my mind.
She was comfortable before because I didn't use to post anything on my personal life on social media... But I just did that. The interesting thing is that she felt uncomfortable with this... Like, I couldn't do that.
I know everything is possible, and I had some very weird experiences with women in my life. So, that's why I do not completely discard that.
In this same day, I paid her part on pilates class, asked her to give me that part but she has only 50, then I have to get back 20 bucks to her. She ask: "Are you going to give me this back? Cause I really need that"... This is something that I'm really considering breaking up with this girl. I paid for everything for more than 6 months while she was unemployed, and now she come and said that. Those stuffs seems really like a red flag.
I would like some help figuring out that. I don't like to make false assumptions or blindly believe on my intuition.
I'm on a LTR for one year, and this week something weird happened... the same time it happened, I just felt something might be wrong. But btw, I kind of tried to believe that I'm wrong. I don't like to believe into something until I'm sure about.
A time ago I post here about intuition and a guy that as she said "I don't know how this guy appeared on my instagram, I didn't follower him". It's her brother's friend (he was a good looking guy). This is kind of weird cause I've been around this guy sometimes and he look at me on a strange way. She swore to me that she didn't had anything with this guy. So, I moved on. But I didn't believe that... I pretty sure there is something.
So, this week she sent me a good night message really quickly at 8:30 pm and then just disappear. Whatsapp 2 checked icon doesnt appear, it was only one when I answered her... and I felt weird because she never did that. She always kept her wifi on. Her explanation was: "I was feeling so stressed out and tired about job, also I was feeling jealous because you were posting some workout stories on your instagram, then I didn't want to keep my internet on.".
I tried to called her, but he changed her phone and she said she need to get a new mobile chip for that. So I couldn't consider this.
But this thing of turning off the wifi, she always slept with it on... I know cause most times I slept later and I sent something to her... The message was with 2 checked icons all time. I don't have such a bad memory.
So, as crazy as it might seem... I think that: She started to become jealous because I've started to workout again, then idk but she felt threatened if some girl could possibly see that story and maybe go talk to me. So this emotion made her cheat on me like a revenge. I'm not saying this happened, but it was the first idea that came in my mind.
She was comfortable before because I didn't use to post anything on my personal life on social media... But I just did that. The interesting thing is that she felt uncomfortable with this... Like, I couldn't do that.
I know everything is possible, and I had some very weird experiences with women in my life. So, that's why I do not completely discard that.
In this same day, I paid her part on pilates class, asked her to give me that part but she has only 50, then I have to get back 20 bucks to her. She ask: "Are you going to give me this back? Cause I really need that"... This is something that I'm really considering breaking up with this girl. I paid for everything for more than 6 months while she was unemployed, and now she come and said that. Those stuffs seems really like a red flag.
I would like some help figuring out that. I don't like to make false assumptions or blindly believe on my intuition.