“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I’ll never forget it. I was crossing the road to enter Selfridges department store in London when I caught a glimpse of a tubby woman reflected in the shop’s huge windows. When her strides started to mirror mine, it hit me: she was me.
In my teens, I worked as a model, and I’d always been happy with my appearance. It was natural, then, for me to try to find a remedy when it started to change.

Ten years on I still have the odd shock. Just the other day, a friend and I were discussing a man she knows who, at the age of 44, has just married a 22-year-old.
Throughout my teens and 20s, I had always looked years younger than I was. But, as I hit my mid-30s, all that stopped. Mother Nature took the brakes off and, seemingly overnight, I turned from bright-eyed, dewy-skinned nymph into red-eyed, flaky-skinned hag.
my opinion: :up: :up: :up:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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White girls hit the wall soo hard it is actually sad, because they are sooo hot when they are young. I think about the cast of "The Hills and Laguna Beach" they were prolly the hottest girls on the planet at that time. Come the reboot they ALL look washed up and old... I'm like "WTF happened to my Whitney and Kristin!!?"

And I like to point out Top Gun and Top Gun 2 (soon release).

Tom Cruise is in both movies as the main actor. He is still in his Prime today. The hot girl from the first movie is now an old hag and Tom will have a new hotter younger woman in the new movie.

Thank god your a man.
 

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As much as I like the concept of retribution, I dont feel particularly satisfied from the fact that those women now understand what it means to play in hard mode (aka average man life mode).

As long as they dont inform younger women about what happened to them, nothing significant will come to us or society from them hitting the wall.

As long as the average 25 yrs old girl doesnt get a reality check about her future she will keep riding the carousel till she becomes useless to men and a cost to society because economically speaking...women are not that useful to society beside making kids. give the cost/taxes ratio.
 

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Any young girl with eyes can see her future, but some choose to kid themselves. I did date a girl (23 at the time) who said, "it's gonna be all downhill after 30."
It's partly the arrogance of youth ("that will never happen to me, look how cute I am"). And partly the time dilation effect - the fact that time passes more slowly when you're younger but speeds up as you age. "Sure, women over 30 look rough, but I'm only 22, that's eight years away, that's an eternity".

Anyway, it may be satisfying when women lose their entitled position. But I wouldn't take much satisfaction that they feel the effects of aging. Men may age more gracefully than women, but age comes to everyone sooner or later, and whether you believe it or not. I'm constantly dealing with little niggling aches and pains. Father Time is undefeated. Besides, it's one less hot girl on the market, how is that a good thing?
 

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Any young girl with eyes can see her future, but some choose to kid themselves. I did date a girl (23 at the time) who said, "it's gonna be all downhill after 30."

And sure there's wrinkles and grey hairs, but I find the cruelest joke for women is the growth of the jawbone. Women still look babyfaced until about 23/24. Compare young and later pics of any female celebrity and you'll see what I mean. I think this is why I like Selena Gomez, lol.
They develop that jaw bone from sucking so much ****.
 

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It's partly the arrogance of youth ("that will never happen to me, look how cute I am"). And partly the time dilation effect - the fact that time passes more slowly when you're younger but speeds up as you age. "Sure, women over 30 look rough, but I'm only 22, that's eight years away, that's an eternity".

Anyway, it may be satisfying when women lose their entitled position. But I wouldn't take much satisfaction that they feel the effects of aging. Men may age more gracefully than women, but age comes to everyone sooner or later, and whether you believe it or not. I'm constantly dealing with little niggling aches and pains. Father Time is undefeated. Besides, it's one less hot girl on the market, how is that a good thing?
Spot on about time horizons. At 21 30 seemed ages away. At 32 I can see 50 looming ominously...
 

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White girls hit the wall soo hard it is actually sad, because they are sooo hot when they are young. I think about the cast of "The Hills and Laguna Beach" they were prolly the hottest girls on the planet at that time. Come the reboot they ALL look washed up and old... I'm like "WTF happened to my Whitney and Kristin!!?"

And I like to point out Top Gun and Top Gun 2 (soon release).

Tom Cruise is in both movies as the main actor. He is still in his Prime today. The hot girl from the first movie is now an old hag and Tom will have a new hotter younger woman in the new movie.

Thank god your a man.
Unless we have met him without makeup we dont really know what he looks like away from the camera.

Brad Pitt still looks decent but you can tell age is catching up. Hes not as in shape as he was 10 years ago as well.

A number of these Hollywood actors and actresses are just average looking people away from the cameras.
 

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As much as I like the concept of retribution, I dont feel particularly satisfied from the fact that those women now understand what it means to play in hard mode (aka average man life mode).

As long as they dont inform younger women about what happened to them, nothing significant will come to us or society from them hitting the wall.

As long as the average 25 yrs old girl doesnt get a reality check about her future she will keep riding the carousel till she becomes useless to men and a cost to society because economically speaking...women are not that useful to society beside making kids. give the cost/taxes ratio.
That 49 year old teacher is still hot! I wonder what she looked like at 30. Must been a stunner.
 

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Any young girl with eyes can see her future, but some choose to kid themselves. I did date a girl (23 at the time) who said, "it's gonna be all downhill after 30."

And sure there's wrinkles and grey hairs, but I find the cruelest joke for women is the growth of the jawbone. Women still look babyfaced until about 23/24. Compare young and later pics of any female celebrity and you'll see what I mean. I think this is why I like Selena Gomez, lol.
I agree about the jawbone. It continues to get robust, and the result is that older women start looking like trannies. :eek:

Of course, there is the all-time age (only 48 here) degradation (I never tire of posting it here :cool:):

My mortifying moment at the Christmas party and why it's hell to be 48, alone and desperate.jpg
 

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I agree about the jawbone. It continues to get robust, and the result is that older women start looking like trannies. :eek:

Of course, there is the all-time age (only 48 here) degradation (I never tire of posting it here :cool:):

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That teacher chick I'm talking to is a year older and far hotter and younger looking that that!

Also note, like all of us that pic probably has beauty modes and air brushing too so she probably looks a lot worse than that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My mother is 74. She told me a story just the other day when I went to see her in Florida about her older sister/my aunt ("Aunt B") who passed away a few years ago. Aunt B. was married 4 x times and after #4 ended in her 50s she wouldn't throw in the towel. Mom said Aunt B, in her 50s, still thought she could compete with the chicks in their 20s for men and land a young hot man to make #5. My mom said she tried to tell her tactfully "I'm not saying you are ugly, but you need to start going for men that are more in your league, or call it quits with men all together. You are just setting yourself up for disappointment.".. The aunt refused to listen to any of it and tried and tried, but never was able to hook #5 before she died. I never was a big fan of Aunt B. as mom said she also cheated on all of her husbands lol
 

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I had a woman today around my age, pretty hot in face and body, said she wanted to "kiss" me. My response was, "As long as I'm the only one..." I'd just met her and her co-workers (younger) were all around. It was kinda a slap or rebuff of modern wh0redom. I told her/them I have not problem with "that (kissing me)." I'm in really good shape in 2020 and my horniness/testosterone has returned. I have drive and desire to fvck again and I know they feel it emanating from me. They see the crackling energy hopping off of me. I feel great though obviously older (in the eyes mainly - I have heavier eyes now, can't avoid it, all other parts of me is young feelin and youthful - it sucks I can't just replace my eyeballs that are no longer youthful, I mean, don't look bad, just I FEEL heavy in the eyes and that's...age no way of gettin around it).
 

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I had a woman today around my age, pretty hot in face and body, said she wanted to "kiss" me. My response was, "As long as I'm the only one..." I'd just met her and her co-workers (younger) were all around. It was kinda a slap or rebuff of modern wh0redom. I told her/them I have not problem with "that (kissing me)." I'm in really good shape in 2020 and my horniness/testosterone has returned. I have drive and desire to fvck again and I know they feel it emanating from me. They see the crackling energy hopping off of me. I feel great though obviously older (in the eyes mainly - I have heavier eyes now, can't avoid it, all other parts of me is young feelin and youthful - it sucks I can't just replace my eyeballs that are no longer youthful, I mean, don't look bad, just I FEEL heavy in the eyes and that's...age no way of gettin around it).
Same here as you saw my thread about sinus issues. It really ages you and makes you look tired when your eyes look tired and old.

That's the advantage OLD has. You can post those fancy smartphone pics that have all the fancy filters and stuff that make you look a lot younger. All the chicks use these filters, you should too!
 
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