"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Notice a difference -female vs demographics?

Black Widow Void

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This is more of a generalization (yes, there are exceptions to the rule etc...) Just curious if any of you have noticed that women from different U.S. areas are culturally different.

I'll give an example, I was raised in the south. Oddly enough, the best satisfying relationships I've had were with New England women (that moved south). Seems to me that in the South (male or female) you'll get a knife in the back. If it's further North, the knife will be in the chest.
Perhaps some of you from different areas can verify your experiences?

Again, speaking in generalizations.... I've found it easier to quickly sleep with southern women, but as a rule, they just don't seem as intellectually enlightened.
Your thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is more of a generalization (yes, there are exceptions to the rule etc...) Just curious if any of you have noticed that women from different U.S. areas are culturally different.

I'll give an example, I was raised in the south. Oddly enough, the best satisfying relationships I've had were with New England women (that moved south). Seems to me that in the South (male or female) you'll get a knife in the back. If it's further North, the knife will be in the chest.
Perhaps some of you from different areas can verify your experiences?

Again, speaking in generalizations.... I've found it easier to quickly sleep with southern women, but as a rule, they just don't seem as intellectually enlightened.
Your thoughts?
My area of Floriduh most of the women are from New England, at least in my age range. Snobby. Then you have the local raised ones who seem to be trashier, not dating material.

I thought my area of FL was bad, but the area you lived in is even worse for singles LOL when I looked it up!!!

I will say the women up in St. Louis seem more well behaved, AND much much more attactive, and in shape compared to down here. And Missouri is considered an upper south state too and has high obesity rates but the young women up there much more attractive.
 
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This is true. Each area of the country has a different culture. For example, my area is plagued by intellectual women with short purple hair. Needless to say I swipe left a lot more than I swipe right.

I used to think that intellectually enlightened women were a good thing, but for the most part they also tend to be elitist and bigoted. Very few women who claim to be intellectual can have any kind of intelligent debate on a topic in my experience. I'm almost to the point now where I'd rather date a woman of average intelligence because they're easier to deal with.

I haven't dated out east, only west and south. And I'll take a texas woman over a west coast woman every day of the week. Just as cute, but brought up to be respectful.
 

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This is true. Each area of the country has a different culture. For example, my area is plagued by intellectual women with short purple hair. Needless to say I swipe left a lot more than I swipe right.

I used to think that intellectually enlightened women were a good thing, but for the most part they also tend to be elitist and bigoted. Very few women who claim to be intellectual can have any kind of intelligent debate on a topic in my experience. I'm almost to the point now where I'd rather date a woman of average intelligence because they're easier to deal with.

I haven't dated out east, only west and south. And I'll take a texas woman over a west coast woman every day of the week. Just as cute, but brought up to be respectful.
But California has hotter women!!!!!!! To me hotness is the biggest factor. I can put up with a snob if they're HB9
 

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my area is plagued by intellectual women with short purple hair. Needless to say I swipe left a lot more than I swipe right.
You're not alone. We've got those exact types here in the south too. They may think of themselves as intellectuals, but in reality, they are an aspiring hipster pseudo-intellectual.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I’m in the northeast I love the hustle but tend to only commit to the immigrants or daughters of immigrants. Metro NYC has some hot women that make a ton of money but are total bvtches. I pump and dump mostly these days
 
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