forcerecon01
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 14, 2019
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- Age
- 47
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It’s funny, when I was 14 I was in love with Sharon Stone when she was 33.I could believe some young fellow would believe 33 is an "old lady", but 26? No way.
They talk here about 18-25 as being prime years for women. I remember when I was young thinking about this, and I deduced that the years of "hotness" lasted until age 27. Of course there's still individuality, and some women who were older were hot. And some girls expired at 19 lol. But 27 was my general rule of thumb.It’s funny, when I was 14 I was in love with Sharon Stone when she was 33
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.