"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What the h3ll does "heteroflexible" mean?

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OKCupid sent me a gal with this being her sexuality. Something tells me she's a loo, but that she'd be a great casual sex partner.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OKCupid sent me a gal with this being her sexuality. Something tells me she's a loo, but that she'd be a great casual sex partner.
Basically means someone who's supposed to be mostly straight but experiments once in awhile. Okc has a lot of that trash. I see it on there a lot.
 

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notes:

gender-[foo] = i like feminine men and bull dykes
hetero[foo] = i like sex with men but its ok if a hot chick hits on me
bi-curious = i tell this to men to make them think i like girls, but i will never have a 3some with you
poly[foo] = im a slvt and take no responsibility if I fvck someone else if we are dating
open-relationship = my husband/fiance/boyfriend are cucked
Myers-Briggs Type = im really fvcked-up, likely BPD, my previous lovers abused me.. but I stayed, excuse my sh1tty behavior
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sometimes women will say crap like that just to get even more attention from men. May not even be true.
 

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OKCupid sent me a gal with this being her sexuality. Something tells me she's a loo, but that she'd be a great casual sex partner.
If she's using it correctly it means that she's straight but she's down for threesomes with other girls and might make out with/mess around with girls when she's drunk

If she's not using it right it either means she's seeking attention/snowflake status and is totally straight
or she's bi and in denial/doesn't want you to know.

Hypothetically, the best of both worlds between straight and bi girls would be one who's not really into girls but is down for threesomes and goes wild at parties.
 

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If she's using it correctly it means that she's straight but she's down for threesomes with other girls and might make out with/mess around with girls when she's drunk

If she's not using it right it either means she's seeking attention/snowflake status and is totally straight
or she's bi and in denial/doesn't want you to know.

Hypothetically, the best of both worlds between straight and bi girls would be one who's not really into girls but is down for threesomes and goes wild at parties.
This.

TLDR: She’s basically straight with bi-lite mixed in.
 

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TLDR: She’s basically straight with bi-lite mixed in.
I like that, why don't we just call it bi-lite. You coined a phrase.
It's not like the world has enough different categories of gender identification or sexual orientation. We need more!
 

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so pretty much is gay but have no corage to come up with? ok
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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