Ones close to 40 many dont drink or just social drinkers. Many had drinking problems when younger and trying to stay silver. The two I'm talking to one has been silver for 11 years and the other drinks wine and hardly ever gets drunk.I would think women would view it as a positive if you don't drink, especially at our age. I hear women complain that lots of guys they meet online are drunks. I always tell women i aint much into drinking. I'd mention that before a first date, then she knows and you dont waste your time if she needs a drinking partner.