She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ruff ruff that girl’s a dog and she wouldn’t let you anywhere near her, I know the type and have attempted to get with this almost spitting image gal and she DID NOT like me. We kissed briefly but no further, a real blue balls experience. Nasty attitude that ended us the same week I’d first met her. She was feminist and tried to control me or order me to do such n such and I basically refused and she didn’t like that. She thought I’d go along with her feminism. Nope.And girl soccer players too! Some are DAMN sexy with slim legs and figures! Morgan Brian is a solid HB 9.5! Perfect girl!!!!
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I bet all those athletic girls are total snobs to the max. Sucks because soccer girls have great physical appearance. Slim legs, lean muscle.Ruff ruff that girl’s a dog and she wouldn’t let you anywhere near her, I know the type and have attempted to get with this almost spitting image gal and she DID NOT like me. We kissed briefly but no further, a real blue balls experience. Nasty attitude that ended us the same week I’d first met her. She was feminist and tried to control me or order me to do such n such and I basically refused and she didn’t like that. She thought I’d go along with her feminism. Nope.
Wait, I had something for this.I bet all those athletic girls are total snobs to the max. Sucks because soccer girls have great physical appearance. Slim legs, lean muscle.
Well, I believe Poonani. If he couldn't work magic with her then who could? I would think those athletes would date a athlete anyway.Wait, I had something for this.
Something about ....sour grapes?
Every woman is willing to change in the arms of the right man.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The logic is weak with this one.I would think those athletes would date a athlete anyway.
This.Big and muscular gets you more respect from men (or fear someone may say) but lean and muscular gets a better feedback from girls.
I agree! Around this area the few hot young women I do see though are usually with those meat head looking guys as I described. Built like a gorilla with a fat head, big chest and arms. To me it just looks goofy. Maybe it's just the region but whenever I see a high end HB the times I do in this area it's usually with a meat head. Here is a CLASSIC example of a meat head, textbook one I'm talking about. has the arrogant temper to go along with it.I have asked many women and they prefer athletic/lean vs. muscular meathead look.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This guys knows what’s up.Big and muscular gets you more respect from men (or fear someone may say) but lean and muscular gets a better feedback from girls.