bcude
Master Don Juan
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Attention is the most valuable currency there is when dealing with women, so it would be foolish not to use it.
I like the anology of treating women like dogs. You love your dog and reward it when it behaves and punish your dog when it doesn't behave. You hold it accountable for its actions by either call it out on it, withdrawing attention or both depending on the severity of the issue, so it will learn where your boundaries are. When it crosses a line with you it needs to know it immediately and be put into place, it doesn't matter if the dog "got to you", since you stand up for yourself and live your life according to your standards, which is your only option if you don't want to live a miserable life where it ****s on your table as soon as your leave the house and you will soon be demoted to the cleaning boy the dog can step all over. What's next, ****ting in your bed when you make love? The dog will feel safe and comfortable knowing you have boundaries and love you for it, just like women. It's very simple in theory but most guys have problems doing just this when they shower the woman with flowers before she even qualified herself to you trying to buy her affection, or even worse, when they try to clear their bad conscience about something which has the opposite effect.
Walking away should be something she just knows you're capable of doing all the time, as soon as she doesn't live up to your standards. It will be communicated through your mannerism and everything you do covertly, because it's your default mindset and something you truly feel and not some line you threaten her with when she acts out.
I like the anology of treating women like dogs. You love your dog and reward it when it behaves and punish your dog when it doesn't behave. You hold it accountable for its actions by either call it out on it, withdrawing attention or both depending on the severity of the issue, so it will learn where your boundaries are. When it crosses a line with you it needs to know it immediately and be put into place, it doesn't matter if the dog "got to you", since you stand up for yourself and live your life according to your standards, which is your only option if you don't want to live a miserable life where it ****s on your table as soon as your leave the house and you will soon be demoted to the cleaning boy the dog can step all over. What's next, ****ting in your bed when you make love? The dog will feel safe and comfortable knowing you have boundaries and love you for it, just like women. It's very simple in theory but most guys have problems doing just this when they shower the woman with flowers before she even qualified herself to you trying to buy her affection, or even worse, when they try to clear their bad conscience about something which has the opposite effect.
Walking away should be something she just knows you're capable of doing all the time, as soon as she doesn't live up to your standards. It will be communicated through your mannerism and everything you do covertly, because it's your default mindset and something you truly feel and not some line you threaten her with when she acts out.