"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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All that because you were bored?
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Yep that whole novel I wrote dissing Rollo nut huggers.
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Just like a woman...
You can question his work but don't diss the man.
The man deserves some praise for putting in the effort to raise up and motivate other men.
I heard he doesn't make money out of it and has his own job, that's admirable.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Lol displacement from liking a ****ty football team?
I wasn't dissing Rollo I was dissing the nut huggers on this thread. Smiling that I got a rise out of several of you
I've misunderstood ur intent. Apologies then.I wasn't dissing Rollo I was dissing the nut huggers on this thread. Smiling that I got a rise out of several of you
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Just like a womanLol displacement from liking a ****ty football team?
I wasn't dissing Rollo I was dissing the nut huggers on this thread. Smiling that I got a rise out of several of you
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Interesting that you saw that. Nice work.