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No one is born gay

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There were flaming gays in Roman times as with the Turkish times. It's just how it is. Heck, @ backseatjuan just came out to us that he's had a gay experience at the bar. Strange, but I do not judge. I am not a scientist, but there's evidence that people do not have a choice in being gay or not. Just now it's more open because people are more tolerant towards it.



Agreed.

Doesn't make sense if one suddenly enjoys being fvcked in the azz or cuddling a hairy chest.

Seems like every time I see a movie there's some gay shiet being promoted.
 

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This I agree.

But at the same time people who wishes to practise LGBT lifestyle must be left alone and not discriminated on.

Let them quietly live their life's and go extinct - meaning, hopefully their defective genes will be weeded out of the gene pool.
It’s really just a symptom of increased social pressure. If we let it continue, it WILL spread, and ultimately lead to human extinction. That’s exactly what happened in the Mouse Universe experiments. We have empirical evidence that this is the death of humanity.
 

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I have a gay older brother. I can definitely confirm that people are born gay as I've known my brother is gay since he was a child.

I dont believe in the existence of a gay gene since it would have been weeded out through natural selection. I believe in genetic combination errors during pregnancy which gives rise to males with gay preferences.
I agree with this. You are born the way you are. Now, there is a certain variable gray area where you can go back and forth, but in general, you are gay or you aren't. Keep in mind we're talking about a very small minority of the population.

I've known some gay guys who pump themselves full of hormones and do Crossfit or whatever and live the life of a straight guy. But they are gay, and they will be caught by their wives with another guy one day.

Every gay person I've ever met says they knew they were gay from a young age. Societal norms can be very strong, which is why so many sheep just go with the herd. People live fake lives daily, everywhere, all the time.

Bisexual people generally are one or the other. Then you have to start getting into the sexual pervert freaks, damaged people and what not.
 

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It doesn't make sense that anyone would willingly choose to be gay, even in 2019 America.

Why would you choose a lifestyle that throws so many roadblocks in your path, could potentially cost you jobs, alienate your family, and in general just complicate your life. And for some people that means choosing to stay in the closet as well, which is a man-made prison. Think how many married dads had to sneak around and risk imprisonment or worse to get a piece on the side. Or even Republican politicians who got caught in mens room stalls. Why would they choose to be gay? What, when they were 15 they thought, "Gee, I could get a job, marry a nice girl and raise a couple of kids. OR I could do all that, plus suck d!ck at highway rest stops and maybe get tossed in prison. Yeah, that sounds like the life for me!" It doesn't pass the logic test.
 

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It’s really just a symptom of increased social pressure. If we let it continue, it WILL spread, and ultimately lead to human extinction. That’s exactly what happened in the Mouse Universe experiments. We have empirical evidence that this is the death of humanity.
Being gay is similar to any other inherited DNA induced sickness, like parkinsonism.

You either have it or you don't.
 

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You're nuts. Did you choose be this way?
More or less, yeah. It's just when I got out of it that it was my choice all along. Not while I was caught up in that ****.
Being gay is similar to any other inherited DNA induced sickness, like parkinsonism.

You either have it or you don't.
B-B-B-B-B-BULL****.

When that crap spreads across groups of people who are genetically unrelated, all during the same period of time, that means it is psychological. Who are these people I am referring to? Greeks. And Romans too, now that I think of it. It always leads to pedophilia, too, as we've seen from both of those historic societies.

We even see this evidenced when **** like NAM/BLA started popping up once the Sexual Revolution came around. Fax
 

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What's the point of such speculation...

Straight males trying to figure out if gay males can be born gay. Shouldn't you ask a gay guy? Then the question is whether they're properly interpreting their memories. So it seems to me the only way to figure out if someone is born gay is to go to the source. Either looking at genes (which seems to be somewhat inconclusive) or observing infants as they mature.

The problem with this convo is that no one is going to successfully convince the others to think the way they do. Because no one can provide evidence... Save your energy brahs.

I do know one thing though. There is one thing that scares me almost as much as death.. and that's being penetrated. Makes me clinch...

Hard.
 

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More or less, yeah. It's just when I got out of it that it was my choice all along. Not while I was caught up in that ****.

B-B-B-B-B-BULL****.

When that crap spreads across groups of people who are genetically unrelated, all during the same period of time, that means it is psychological. Who are these people I am referring to? Greeks. And Romans too, now that I think of it. It always leads to pedophilia, too, as we've seen from both of those historic societies.

We even see this evidenced when **** like NAM/BLA started popping up once the Sexual Revolution came around. Fax
R u saying that every single roman/Greek male then was fvcking each other?
 

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R u saying that every single roman/Greek male then was fvcking each other?
More or less, yeah. I mean I know the Etruscans went ahead and literally had city-wide orgies right in the streets and stuff, **** was wack. They were the precursors to the Romans too, so it wouldn’t surprise me. I’m pretty sure Pompeii had similar ****, too. Probably why all those religious folks say God destroyed Pompeii for their sins lol.

From what I know (at least in Rome anyway, not sure of the Etruscans or Greeks), the men were allowed to **** other men so long as they weren’t in the receiving end. So what they did was rape their male slaves or **** little boys. I’m pretty sure Greece was the same way too tbh, just based off how similar it was Rome’s. The Etruscans has a literal free-for-all though, it wouldn’t surprise me if they were into animals too. All this **** is so ****ed up, honestly.
 

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It doesn't make sense that anyone would willingly choose to be gay, even in 2019
For those of you who think that gayness is purely genetic, how do you explain the fact that these “born to be gay” folks seem to be quite capable of having sex with women and even fathering children? When homosexuality was less accepted, it used to be common for gays to have families and children for the sake of plausible deniability. This kind of behavior still exists today.

Think about it for a second. If they can stay hard long enough to blow a load inside a chick, obviously they don’t find the idea of sex with a female to be repulsive. Not to mention, one also has to woo a woman to some extent to get her to marry him. This means that one must convincingly pretend to be straight, which would not be easy to do for someone who is “born gay”.

Now, let’s also talk about pedophiles. To be clear, I am not drawing an equivalency between gays and pedophiles. But are pedophiles also “born that way”? To paraphrase samspade, who in their right mind would actually want to be a pedophile? And if pedophiles are genetically wired to be attracted to children, why are we throwing people in jail for having kiddie porn on their computers? They can’t help it, right?

What about sexual fetishes? People who like to get whipped or peed on or dress up like Batman while having sex - were they born that way too? Do they have defective genes?

I will believe that people are born gay when someone conducts a scientific experiment where they take a hundred infants, raise them in a controlled environment with zero exposure to gay stimuli of any kind, and some of them still grow up gay. To my knowledge, this has never been done.
 

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What's the point of such speculation...

Straight males trying to figure out if gay males can be born gay. Shouldn't you ask a gay guy? Then the question is whether they're properly interpreting their memories. So it seems to me the only way to figure out if someone is born gay is to go to the source. Either looking at genes (which seems to be somewhat inconclusive) or observing infants as they mature.

The problem with this convo is that no one is going to successfully convince the others to think the way they do. Because no one can provide evidence... Save your energy brahs.

I do know one thing though. There is one thing that scares me almost as much as death.. and that's being penetrated. Makes me clinch...

Hard.
This is true, there's no real point to arguing it. Either way, they're gay, who cares.
 

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More or less, yeah. It's just when I got out of it that it was my choice all along. Not while I was caught up in that ****.

B-B-B-B-B-BULL****.

When that crap spreads across groups of people who are genetically unrelated, all during the same period of time, that means it is psychological. Who are these people I am referring to? Greeks. And Romans too, now that I think of it. It always leads to pedophilia, too, as we've seen from both of those historic societies.

We even see this evidenced when **** like NAM/BLA started popping up once the Sexual Revolution came around. Fax
You need help.
 

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No one is born gay. I grew up as differently from my brother as possible too. We were polar opposites. I fixed my **** though. It’s hard af, esp now but no one is born gay.
Bro, you' don't sound straight. All i'm saying
 

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Opionions vary, but at least I am not in the one in denial about my sexual preference. It's okay @ImTheDoubleGreatest!, we do not judge the gays. Be who you were born to be and stop fighting it.
He ain't gay.

He's a kid that's growing up and should be allowed to debate as he likes until he figures things out for himself.

The generational shift will come when young men such as him replaces old farts like us.

Just pointing out that it's the old farts generation that has empowered feminists and it has left such a sad state of affairs to the younger generation.
 

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I had a random thought about this. People ARE born gay. Why? This threads existence explains it. People who say "Nobody is born gay, it's a lifestyle choice" are exposing themselves. They're saying they have felt gay tendencies, but CHOOSE not to be gay or give into those tendencies. I don't know about you guys but it's not even a choice for me. I'm not attracted to guys whatsoever, and would never have sex with guys. People that say people choose to be gay are projecting their reality. No, YOU choose not to be gay cause you're fighting it. That's your choice. Everyone else is legitimately not attracted to the same sex at all.
 

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Just pointing out that it's the old farts generation that has empowered feminists and it has left such a sad state of affairs to the younger generation.
Hey, don't blame us. Usually the younger generation rebels against the older generation and takes things in a different direction. How were we supposed to know they were going to take it and run with it?
 
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