"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can pretend behavior of chad for few months but I feel the best being a nerd lol

Thats not what women like though

Only chance for us nerds is to betabuxx game some old roastie or hit gym and pretend we are chads lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm a total nerd.

Every time I get laid, it's because to her, in that moment, I'm Chad McTyrone.

Meanwhile I'm still a total nerd.
 

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What defines an intellectual and/or need?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I hate when people use terms like "nerd", "chad","beta", "alpha", etc. These terms are too vague and loose and mean different things in different situations and to different people. Trying to constrain yourself within the boundaries of a particular stereotype is unhelpful and counterproductive.
 

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I can pretend behavior of chad for few months but I feel the best being a nerd lol

Thats not what women like though
When I look at those two sentences it's clear to me that you're ashamed of who you really are. That's your problem, that's a bad mindset.

Pretending to be someone you're not is always a losing strategy, you must fvcking own who you are especially if it doesn't fall into the boring as fvck stereotypes. It should really make you more interesting, not just another one of those idiots trying to live up to the image of what they think women want.

I don't even do half the sh!t that's being suggested on this forum. I'm a massive nerd myself, but what I don't do is fit the nerd stereotype of being a socially awkward and insecure little pvssy. Yeah, I play videogames, board games and I'm interested in strange sciency sh!t. Haven't ever experienced scaring women off with that, what does make them keep away is when you don't think your own nerdy interests are good enough for them. Makes you look like an insecure little b!tch.

You don't need to max sh!t if you get this point and start living unapologetically as yourself.
 

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The more efficient an intellectual becomes the more lower his EQ.

The more higher his EQ = Less efficient or effective his intellectual capability.

Unfortunately that's how it works for intellectuals.
 

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I don't even do half the sh!t that's being suggested on this forum. I'm a massive nerd myself, but what I don't do is fit the nerd stereotype of being a socially awkward and insecure little pvssy. Yeah, I play videogames, board games and I'm interested in strange sciency sh!t. Haven't ever experienced scaring women off with that, what does make them keep away is when you don't think your own nerdy interests are good enough for them. Makes you look like an insecure little b!tch.
Totally agree. Women like strong men. Intelligence is actually a kind of strength, and there are women who will appreciate you for it. I've helped many women with filling out forms and such that are necessary to navigate modern life. As you say, you have to own who you are, and there is strength in that too.

This idea that you have to be some sort of callous, sociopathic, hard @ss fvckboy thug to attract women is very damaging IMO.
 

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It's all about her perceived SMV versus yours. It hers is perceived as lower than yours, ergo she's not massively attractive to you, not your type or whatever, then you're automatically a Chad, because you don't actually care what she thinks. You can Smash & Dash, Hitch & Ditch, Fūvk & Chuck her like a commodity.

So raise your SMV as high as it can possibly go and eventually you'll see even 9s as beneath you. It's all about your pedastal. She's blowing up your phone and you're thinking "goddamnit, you again?"

And of course, in the meantime you have and enjoy your "nerdy" hobbies, whatever they are. Who cares if you're a nerd? To her, you're a Chad.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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