"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Smartone84

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Maybe someone can make some sense of this for me.

A while back on this app I would get matches multiple times throughout the day. Sure there would be some dead days but overall I would have some activity here and there. Starting around maybe 6-7 months ago something changed and I began getting close to nothing match wise. I deleted and then redownloaded the app for a "fresh start" so to speak. I would get a lot of hits within the first week or so, and then boom, ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY nothing. We are talking literally one match every few days or so, and it will be some brutally busted girl. I have done this delete and redownload hack several times so far in 2019 and it's the same exact story everytime. Am I the only one who has seen a change in this app? Perhaps they are trying to push users to buy their "Spotlight" thing more (puts you at the front of the line for all of a half an hour for other girls to see you). What used to be a pretty good app for me has become nonexistent unless I pay for the spotlight.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey thats not bad... i get a match like every other week.... so.... count your blessings! Mind you im in Vancouver... and likely far less dense in population than alot of places in usa.... so.... could be why. *shrugs* .... oh and im 41 too so.. and my search is for 34 to 45
 
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Not sure if helpful but here’s my observation:

Anytime I travel or drive out of my home range, I get an influx of matches. Then when I return to my home range, again an influx of matches. Then it slowly teeters back off. I noticed the same as you: uninstall the app and reinstall and bam, influx of matches again.

Something to do with their algorithms - I don’t know much else
 
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BJP1991 said:
Something to do with their algorithms - I don’t know much else
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Yeah, the "you're male" algorithm as designed or ordered by the Tribe. It's to glean (siphon etc) a buck fo sho. Women are gonna pay for an upgrade? I think not. Scarcity, push/pull, (((they))) know what they're doing. It may be a "free" app but it ain't "free," you're pulled there to get eyes on product and then Free to be manipulated.
 
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