"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dilemma - Sex drive issues - HB8.5

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Instant dated 20 Yo HB8.5 to my bedroom.
This time I did a little bit better than my previous date (You can read them, I posted them up). A lot of future projections, pushNpull, teasing, disqualifications.

I think my mistake was that I was not in the mood. I told her my sex drive is low and I cannot have sex but I can only have sex once/Month cause I'm taking finasteride. She agreed.

We are both in my bedroom and I think because I cannot have sex. She asked me if I take viagra or something similar to get me hard.

Because I cannot have sex I went into the Boyfriend (boredfriend) mode. Started to cook while she was sleeping in my bed (2hours). I told her 2 times let's go for a walk after we finish dinner, She replied 5 more minutes while on my bed a couple of times. It was either we stay to watch a movie or go out for a walk, I decided for the walk. We get out of the house and we go to the park for a walk, she says she has to go home and then meet a friend so I started to become super nice and drove her home and to the train station to meet her friend (guy). Probably they focked.

I texted and called her after 1 day. She ghosted me.
I was telling myself I didn't care if I don't see her again. Now I'm in regret mode LOL


I'm open for any face slap and rant you have on me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been on fin for over a decade, am pretty sure I'm a lot older than you, and I can have sex multiple times a day. You may want to talk to a doctor because no woman old or young is going to stick around for once a month sex.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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1. No woman who actually likes you and is worth having would put up with that (expect cheaters, gold diggers and frigid prudes) No man would put up with it from a woman either.

2. Don't take medications with such insane life screwing side effects like that, defeats the purpose of being alive even if the pills are keeping you that way.

3. You definitely need Viagra or something if you can't even get in the mood for a hot naked girl in your bed.

4. Learn to make good use of your fingers and mouth lol.
 
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devilkingx2 said:
1. No woman who actually likes you and is worth having would put up with that (expect cheaters, gold diggers and frigid prudes) No man would put up with it from a woman either.

2. Don't take medications with such insane life screwing side effects like that, defeats the purpose of being alive even if the pills are keeping you that way.

3. You definitely need Viagra or something if you can't even get in the mood for a hot naked girl in your bed.

4. Learn to make good use of your fingers and mouth lol.
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Will try #4 next time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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