"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women-onlys...they're everywhere nationwide

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More rationing of the pvssy or a lesbian meetup (which are plentiful on meetup.com by the way).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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More rationing of the pvssy or a lesbian meetup (which are plentiful on meetup.com by the way).
I noticed this summer in Toronto that number of female bikers is more than men. I was going to write a thread here about this subject but you already started one.
I noticed young men more into getting a sport car , while women more into getting bikes .
I am not a movies fan , but my guess there might be many movies lately when women are riding bikes.
 

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There's thousands of women riding bikes in Jakarta every day.

I see nothing wrong in riding a bike, certainly looks sexy in a hot pants.
 
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I noticed this summer in Toronto that number of female bikers is more than men. I was going to write a thread here about this subject but you already started one.
I noticed young men more into getting a sport car , while women more into getting bikes .
I am not a movies fan , but my guess there might be many movies lately when women are riding bikes.
I live in Toronto too and 9/10 when I see a woman on a motorcycle she has a Quebec license plate. They love their bikes there. Every time I drive to Montreal in the summer there are alway mixed gendered groups on the 401.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Like another planet or something XD

Don't really remember the last I saw a woman riding a motorbike tbh. Proper conservative and beautiful English countryside, and not sure how we'd take a gay pride rally or a lesbian biker group. Probably people would get on to the council or whatever.
Well, I can’t say that the majority of women I’ve seen riding hogs down the highway looked much different then their male peers, so there’s probably a few dyke and bike groups out there. Not that I have anything against that, which I’m required to say, being Canadian and all...

Have you been to Canada? I’m sure it’s a lot different than the UK, depending on where you go. Newfoundland is the closest you will get to the English/Irish culture as 95% of everyone there are Irish/English descendants, including myself (family goes back to Cork).
 

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What’s wrong with Canada eh?
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Gender war in Canada is very steep, many women now shaving their head like military or fully shaved , they just look like men. I wounder what is wrong with them. I might be old fashion, but hopefully some one can explain to me why they want to look such ugly and nasty by shaving their heads and wearing manly clothes.
 
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Gender war in Canada is very steep, many women now shaving their head like military or fully shaved , they just look like men. I wounder what is wrong with them. I might be old fashion, but hopefully some one can explain to me why they want to look such ugly and nasty by shaving their heads and wearing manly clothes.
Depends on what part of Canada you are referring to. It’s a massive country but people not from here usually attribute the major cities as the overall vibe of the country and the major cities are pretty different from small town Canada.
Also, being PC is very surface level. People don’t want to stir the pot at work, school, etc because of the fear of being accused of racism, sexism etc but when people get to know you and are comfortable with you, you get to see that what their views are. Toronto is like one face for public life and one face for private life. That’s how I see it anyway. I think it’s one of the reasons why people are a bit more reserved here, imo.
 

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This article is pretty spot-on. I have known quite a few female riding groups and I see a lot of female riders, the reasons for female-only riding groups stated are spot on. Women know they can't compete with men.
 

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I noticed this summer in Toronto that number of female bikers is more than men. I was going to write a thread here about this subject but you already started one.
I noticed young men more into getting a sport car , while women more into getting bikes .
I am not a movies fan , but my guess there might be many movies lately when women are riding bikes.
The only females associated with bikers I want to have around are the ones that are featured in biker magazines. :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gender war in Canada is very steep, many women now shaving their head like military or fully shaved , they just look like men. I wounder what is wrong with them. I might be old fashion, but hopefully some one can explain to me why they want to look such ugly and nasty by shaving their heads and wearing manly clothes.
Miss Canada:
 

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Here buddy, a picture of an Indonesian Go-jek (ride hailing service) female rider.

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Even in a Muslim majority country, there's no problem with women riding bikes for fun or for making a decent living.
Oh my, I'd probably get a woody riding in the seat behind her. :p
 

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Oh my, I'd probably get a woody riding in the seat behind her. :p
Nah, common face, nothing really special about her looks, not ugly, prolly rated a 6 per Sosuave standard of rating.

Here's some real Indonesian stunners that's bountiful in Jakarta;


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Depends on what part of Canada you are referring to. It’s a massive country but people not from here usually attribute the major cities as the overall vibe of the country and the major cities are pretty different from small town Canada.
Also, being PC is very surface level. People don’t want to stir the pot at work, school, etc because of the fear of being accused of racism, sexism etc but when people get to know you and are comfortable with you, you get to see that what their views are. Toronto is like one face for public life and one face for private life. That’s how I see it anyway. I think it’s one of the reasons why people are a bit more reserved here, imo.
I never being in too many places, but I see male hating every where. women at work take every apportunity to tear men down
Miss Canada:
I meet such ugly faces everyday when I go to work. they talk very loudly and have that evil vibe in their face.
 

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Depends on what part of Canada you are referring to. It’s a massive country but people not from here usually attribute the major cities as the overall vibe of the country and the major cities are pretty different from small town Canada.
Also, being PC is very surface level. People don’t want to stir the pot at work, school, etc because of the fear of being accused of racism, sexism etc but when people get to know you and are comfortable with you, you get to see that what their views are. Toronto is like one face for public life and one face for private life. That’s how I see it anyway. I think it’s one of the reasons why people are a bit more reserved here, imo.
Agreed
 
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