Alright here goes.
I had a first date with this girl on Friday, which went really well and she invited me to a friend's party the following day. We ended up leaving the party very late and went back to hers. We were both pretty dead by then so didn't even make a move and we just went to sleep.
We spend the following day together at home and did some walking. I was contemplating to make a move or not because I was getting a vibe that she is more conservative and I just had that feeling that sex wouldn't happen. I did make a move eventually, and I saw her hesitant and she was stopping me when I was going to escalate.
This is where the beta move comes - I told her "we don't need to rush things if you don't feel ready". I regretted it afterwards because it was just unnecessary. She said that indeed she needs more time so we left it there.
Do you think this was seen as low from her or nothing too important? I really like her and she seems to like me too - we said that we are going to meet up again this week.
P.S - When I say "make a move" I mean for sex. We were kissing from the first date.
I had a first date with this girl on Friday, which went really well and she invited me to a friend's party the following day. We ended up leaving the party very late and went back to hers. We were both pretty dead by then so didn't even make a move and we just went to sleep.
We spend the following day together at home and did some walking. I was contemplating to make a move or not because I was getting a vibe that she is more conservative and I just had that feeling that sex wouldn't happen. I did make a move eventually, and I saw her hesitant and she was stopping me when I was going to escalate.
This is where the beta move comes - I told her "we don't need to rush things if you don't feel ready". I regretted it afterwards because it was just unnecessary. She said that indeed she needs more time so we left it there.
Do you think this was seen as low from her or nothing too important? I really like her and she seems to like me too - we said that we are going to meet up again this week.
P.S - When I say "make a move" I mean for sex. We were kissing from the first date.