Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
But why does HIS junk smell even after a bath. It’s not me for sure. I have brought this up to him and I think embarrassed him. He just denied that he stank. lol. Yes, we need to be careful with our lovely Ph down there. But could it be him and not her?!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Diet
Exactly right, she probably needs to feed him some vegan before sex…
Usually, at least for me, it's the lady who brings up exclusivity. Depending on how I feel, I would entertain it. However, I never chase, and I think that is where a lot of men fvck up. Then again, I am really busy at my job, running for public office and my side hustle, so right now, I can only handle one or two.
Could be his diet or more likely than not jock itch or a fungal infection. He should go to a doc. Both can be transmitted to you. If it gets in your pvs, it's not a pleasant experience.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Sometimes its just they need more water
He has a horrible diet! Eats out constantly, fast food, coffee and beer no water. I didn’t even think of that. Thought men were unaffected by such trivial things. lol. Thanks guys, ill feed him some pineapples on my knees.
90% of his fluid should be pure water. All that bullshyt stinks.
Yeast infections typically don’t cause a fishy odour. Maybe that’s how he smells in his groin area if there’s any sweat down there. The more the day goes on the less fresh people
Lol pineapple, I know that theory.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No water, alcohol, coffee, smoking would stink in his sweat or body scent. It certainly does on a woman.
You were married in a different era. Now society has conned men into serving women at all costs or else they will die alone. It's the men that want to get married, its the men that want commitment, its the men that will do anything for sex, its the men that should sacrifice their lives for women.
Who hurt you dude? ;'p
I remember this thread, and we are still friends with that woman. Although we haven't fcked since 2015, she don't live near me. I got her number on whatsapp and viber and sometimes we write each other. I gave her advice on how to meet men. She still hates her husband.
Normal for most men in the present social structure.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Definitely not buying this for a moment. Some serious rationalization going on here lol.
Doesn’t that directly relate to the ability to have kids though? I don’t want kids. Any man I date doesn’t want kids. i am seeing ages 25-57 and none of them want children. I don’t insistent on monogamy from my partners because i am not monogamous. So any male that wants mono with me is cut loose. And it’s been a few so far that were okay with me dating my 3-4 guys, then they wanted mono or pushed for more time than i would give. I don’t want to be the primary focus of any man because i have a full life already (in addition to my dating).
So you have mono and they don't want it? IIRC, it's only contagious for the first few weeks a person has it. After that, mono is no longer infectious.
