She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What is your hair loss pattern? Full crown but overall thin on top?I either dont care or wear a hat. Both have worked fine for me
Balding in the middle...hair in front and back.What is your hair loss pattern? Full crown but overall thin on top?
It was banter man, behave yourself.OP has a problem with hairloss here. I'm not going into detail about my sex life on his thread
This forum has a problem with keyboard warriors not answering questions or offering any solutions to real problems
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ok. Bald crown here.Balding in the middle...hair in front and back.
To be fair, muscles, clothes and confidence are recommended to everyone.It's the main contradiction in the fullheads' reasoning: they'll tell you it's not a big deal and that it's just hair, then they'll tell you to make all these changes (shave, grow a beard, tan, muscles, clothes, hats, confidence).
If it truly didn't matter at all, you could just... remain the same in every area, but with a horseshoe.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Not to mention some transplants look like shyt that’s worse than being bald.gonna tell you what I told my mom who love to bug me with useless things like these and I started showing some white hair, who cares?
you should not care, it not something you can change, even IF you did a hair transplant, that would only mean you care about the opnion of others, work on things you can change, going to work out is something good, you are working on what you can change
I think head shape matters more than skin color. In such cases, I could see rocking a horseshoe e.g. Larry David.Black guys can pull it off well, but most white guys look hideous. Many whites are better off with some form of shoe instead of sly.
Stupid fullheads do a buzzcut like its one of the most dangerous adventurers in their life. In their mind it is comparable with jumping with parachute. They call it bravery.
There was a youtube video where a woman talks about the positive aspects of dating a bald guy and to be open minded about being with a bald guy and giving them a chance. One of her big points was how a bald man could be "a really nice guy towards your pets or children".
Translation: bald guys can mainly hope for ageing crazy cat ladies or single moms.
PMP mate, its the luck of the draw or lack thereof in the genetic lottery. Winner takes all. It is a *****. Play the hand you are dealt.It wasn't too long ago that I had a full head of amazing hair (okay maybe a little while ago 5-10 years lol). But my hair has slowly been escaping. my forehead is much larger. the hair on top is very thin. and I have significant balding on the crown. It would be classified as a norwood 3v (if you're into that sort of thing). Up to this point, I've been hanging on.. Convincing myself that it's not that bad. hahaha. But I have noticed a bit of a hit in my dating life, which I think is derived partially from the decline of my hairline, but also from the decline of my confidence as it's always in the back of my head. I went as far with this as to start using hair fibers to make it look thicker. Okay, the hair fibers work pretty good. But it's all fun and games until I'm banging some chick in my bed and she starts grabbing my hair with a look of surprise across her face (yes it's fake bytch haha).
Anyway, I have concluded to start growing my beard out rather than clean shaven. and slowly cutting my hair shorter and shorter over the next one to two months as not to scare the shyt out of myself when I look in the mirror (contrast principle). Start tanning so that the top of my head is tanned. And working out five times a week (because why not?). Until I get to the point where I have a full beard and no hair on the top of my head. Wish me luck because I'm frickin doing this.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BRUTAL BaldShortCel BlackPill! The poor guy is also a FaceCel.Agreed. Dont take advice from stupid full heads. White guys with shaved head=cancer patient. Only thing worse than baldceling is being a manlet.
First of all, television is unrealistic by nature. It creates scenarios that are outside of the norm, so that feeble people will watch it in hopes of escaping their boring lives. In the real world, that video is akin to someone saying to me, "hey, you used to play baseball, right? Well we're going to let you face Justin Verlander tomorrow"... I'm probably going to strike out if I'm thrown right on the main stage.BRUTAL BaldShortCel BlackPill! The poor guy is also a FaceCel.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.