"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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article: Day Eleven: Why I’m Still Single (The Ugly Truth)

MatureDJ

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I never meet guys. Like…literally NEVER. A few years ago I felt like I could simply walk into a room and command the attention of the men in the room. I had no trouble meeting men. I got hit on regularly. But something changed along the way and that’s not my experience anymore. I suspect it was more an internal change than an external one, as I honestly think I physically look better now than I did ten years ago. A toxic relationship in my late 20’s that left me questioning everything about myself took its toll. Life happened. Another man I loved for ten long years sat in my apartment not so long ago and looked me in the eye and basically told me in no uncertain terms that I wasn’t lovable to him.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Robert28

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So it’s basically all other guys fault that she sucks at picking men?
 

zekko

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I honestly think I physically look better now than I did ten years ago
Probably a little self delusion going on there. Maybe she's taken some weight off or whatnot, but that can't replace that youthful look that men are naturally attracted to.
 

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Guy gave her ten years to get her **** straight and she still scewed it up, yet he's the toxic one. Sounds legit.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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From the amazon page of her book: “The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass”

“Smart, Strong, independent - single women can live a fabulous life. Husband not required. “

Hmmm... “sassy, strong, independent, fabulous, husband not required”

And she’s confused as to why she’s still single... LMAO

-Augustus-
 

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From the amazon page of her book: “The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass”

“Smart, Strong, independent - single women can live a fabulous life. Husband not required. “

Hmmm... “sassy, strong, independent, fabulous, husband not required”

And she’s confused as to why she’s still single... LMAO

-Augustus-
This is whats being pushed. And they still use men quite often.
 
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