Who sees escorts?

[Spaz]

Yes, but the women who desperately want me in that regard are typically obese.

No offence but ur case is unique and yes escorts will fill in the gaps.

But it's still a band aid.

Have you considered another option?

Like making a move in a demographic where women are generally just 5 feet.

 

[MatureDJ]

For a DJ its still imperitive that his physical attractiveness, swagger and charm can earn puzzy on its own. I just dont want men to think that paid for is the only way. Your missing out on a part of life if women dont deeply desire your body and c0ck.

Sure, if the DJ has the necessary tools (i.e., good face, money, HEIGHT ) and all that is needed is game, by all means. Of course, when game doesn't work, sometimes it ends up like George Sodini or Elliot Rodger.

 

[MatureDJ]

Hiring escorts may cost quite a bit, and depending upon how often you are seeing them could add up very quickly. Maybe you go on a vacation to Hawaii and you want the company of a hot woman, have sex, etc.

The obvious solution is thus go to places on vacation where the cost of escorts is low.

BTW, on my trans-oceanic flight between my "permanent" home and "vacation spot", I've noticed that the white men traveling without women tend to be a good bit shorter than the ones not traveling with women. Hmm ...

 

[corrector]

Talking about escorts or prostitution seems to get you all excited in any thread that touches this topic.

I wonder why..

Anyways, ur perception on them is in no way reflective on how I think.

You use emotions when dealing with them as if to fill a void in ur soul.

You mean when I dealt with them, past tense, on Dec 4 & Dec 5, 2014. By the way, buying prostitution became illegal on midnight of December 6, 2014 if you review Canadian law. I dealt with them a hair before the law of the land made the principle of buying sex in Canada illegal as a last minute purchase.

That was a rational decision based on a law passed by the then conservative government. Had that law not been passed, Bill C-36, and had I still been inside a marriage, then I would not have visited those two prostitutes.

Therefore, you are making a presumption that I made an emotional decision. Why would I want to take an additional legal risk after midnight Dec 6, 2014 or afterwards and not just get this out of my system one time?

I use rationality, profitability, sound judgement and basically all round good sense.

That means if you were placed in my position and wanted to experiment with this for curiosity knowing that A LAW WAS CHANGING AFTER MIDNIGHT, that you would not want to incur additional legal risk once the law changed and to get it over with before that time.

I don't view them with disgust nor disdain. I said cheap because it's useless to bring those types with me, there's no profit to be had.

You said a $ 300 escort is not a real escort but a dirty skank. That sounds like a judgment to me.

When I say dirty, it means they're high mileage and that means a higher probability of being infected with some disease. That's rationality playing out and an advice to men here to be careful.

I don't know how you can say that without it sounding like you are calling them diseased ridden garbage. I mean you can dress your words up, polish things up, make it sound like you are not making a judgment, but you could only do so much before even that sort of falls apart.

If you were honest with your wording rather presenting a mild version, you would say "it means they've slept with an industrial-level tonne of guys and probably have every STD you can think of on the planet and you are friggin INSANE AND STUPID if you dare deal with one".... that's paraphrasing what you said. I said the same exact thing you said but it conveys a different tone which I feel is the true meaning of what you are saying, but refuse to admit it. I say that's not honest.

Also, are you even realistically telling men to be careful? You sound like, unless they are part of high society and can afford ultra-expensive escorts that you are basically insane to deal with them. Who here is going to pay $ 1000 + PER HOUR for an escort? If $ 300 escorts are dirty then they are all dirty and it's not an option for the average guy here.

You on the other hand are not thinking but expressing the deep seated emotions about past experiences with prostitution or women which chains ur soul and feels conflicted by it.

Ur conflict is ur problem not mine nor is it my fault.

You've never been with an escort so you don't really have a right to post on this thread. If you've been with an escort and had a great experience, or if you have a bad experience is better than not dealing with one and saying yeah or neh.

 

[MatureDJ]

By the pound, it's a bargain.

The idea here is NOT to optimize the weight/money ratio.

 

[Spaz]

You mean when I dealt with them, past tense, on Dec 4 & Dec 5, 2014. By the way, buying prostitution became illegal on midnight of December 6, 2014 if you review Canadian law. I dealt with them a hair before the law of the land made the principle of buying sex in Canada illegal as a last minute purchase.

That was a rational decision based on a law passed by the then conservative government. Had that law not been passed, Bill C-36, and had I still been inside a marriage, then I would not have visited those two prostitutes.

Therefore, you are making a presumption that I made an emotional decision. Why would I want to take an additional legal risk after midnight Dec 6, 2014 or afterwards and not just get this out of my system one time?



That means if you were placed in my position and wanted to experiment with this for curiosity knowing that A LAW WAS CHANGING AFTER MIDNIGHT, that you would not want to incur additional legal risk once the law changed and to get it over with before that time.



You said a $ 300 escort is not a real escort but a dirty skank. That sounds like a judgment to me.



I don't know how you can say that without it sounding like you are calling them diseased ridden garbage. I mean you can dress your words up, polish things up, make it sound like you are not making a judgment, but you could only do so much before even that sort of falls apart.

If you were honest with your wording rather presenting a mild version, you would say "it means they've slept with an industrial-level tonne of guys and probably have every STD you can think of on the planet and you are friggin INSANE AND STUPID if you dare deal with one".... that's paraphrasing what you said. I said the same exact thing you said but it conveys a different tone which I feel is the true meaning of what you are saying, but refuse to admit it. I say that's not honest.



You've never been with an escort so you don't really have a right to post on this thread. If you've been with an escort and had a great experience, or if you have a bad experience is better than not dealing with one and saying yeah or neh.

This thread is not about you nor about ur experiences.

OP has stated his, and so have I.

I understand his contention as he does mine.

You on the other hand can continue raving like a lunatic if you wish, that's ur right.

 

[MatureDJ]

You can negotiate them. Even porn stars get to $400. As usual ita best your physical and sexual appeal gets ladies wet.

I understand that it is a bit of a boutique market for porn "actresses" to hire themselves out as actresses where you get to be the "actor", with an amateurish video of the entire session.

 

[corrector]

This thread is not about you nor about ur experiences.

OP has stated his, and so have I.

I understand his contention as he does mine.

You on the other hand can continue raving like a lunatic if you wish, that's ur right.

I've just been bringing up your own retarded posts not my experiences. Not everyone here is an idiot you know.

 

[Spaz]

I've just been bringing up your own retarded posts not my experiences. Not everyone here is an idiot you know.

What's retarded is being emotional about prostitution and linking it with demons in every thread.

Who's the idiot?

 

[John9999]

Ok guys. Now we are going off and 18 different directions.

Spaz has actually got me thinking about things. No cheap meaningless sex is not really what I want. The best sex I had of my life was with my ex fiancé. We were madly in love and the sex was like an out of body experience.

I think I have all but given up that I will ever get that again. We called off engagement and split up over three years ago.

The escorts are just a Band-Aid fix as you say.

 

[Epicwinguy]

That's cheap stuff....hardly qualifies as an escort service, those girls are dirty man.

What do you mean "dirty?" Like missin taith dirty?

 

[Spaz]

What do you mean "dirty?" Like missin taith dirty?

As in biologically.

 

[sangheilios]

@John9999

I've only read some of your posts on here and I obviously don't know much at all about you. However, it sounds like you've been burned in the past, got hurt by it and at a point in your life where you really don't want to deal with female drama. Also, you are in your early 50s, so those around your age are married, and the ones that aren't are probably not particularly attractive and don't do much for you, which is totally understandable. You probably also have a ton of other things going on in your life, or at least you should, and you just want to get to the chase lol.

As I mentioned earlier, as long as you aren't going to get into trouble with the police and can stay safe from STDs then it's all good. I personally do not think it is healthy for men to go long periods of time without having some sort of female contact, whether that be including sex or not. This is probably doing you more good than you realize but I'm also sure you'd ideally like to find an attractive drama free woman who'd be potential relationship material. However, that is far easier said than done and as you said above seeing escorts is just a band aid/temporary fix.

The only time I could ever see someone having issues with seeing escorts would be if they had never been able to find a willing female partner or if they developed "feelings" for these women.

 

[Newbee2]

It's a phase, soon it will be boring.. like eating at restaurants everyday for two months, and after homecooked meals seems much better

In my MGTOW attempt I tried different options, the best was an agreement with a girl who studied, she did come one time every week, unless I wanted more.. a little bit company but mostly 6. It was fairly cheap compaired to LTR, also no bull, no nagging, no drama, no demands.. problem free, but still not the real deal..

A wise guy in here said;

 

[MatureDJ]

No offence but ur case is unique and yes escorts will fill in the gaps.

But it's still a band aid.

Have you considered another option?

Like making a move in a demographic where women are generally just 5 feet.

I don't like the little brown focking machines.

 

[sangheilios]

I don't like the little brown focking machines.

LOL

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I don't like the little brown focking machines.

Did someone say "fvcking machines"?

 

[Spaz]

I don't like the little brown focking machines.

Hahaha

 

[Who Dares Win]

If it wasnt for the shaming and internalized pressure not to pay for sex, most men would realize that paying has a higher rate of return per money spent and act accordingly.

Personally I dont hit escorts cause my libido is not that high, its complicated to avoid scams and fake advertisments and there are no legalized controlled place for that purpose.

In my late 20s I had sex without paying with girls much more attractive than those posted few pages ago yet I know for sure that its very unlikely that it will happen regularly in my 50s, at that point if my libido will still demand satisfaction then going after escort will be an option for sure.

The point is not only about money (cost per lay) but about what "free" women offer and demand, if I dont get royal treatment while someone before me did, I get annoyed, wheter we like it or not we DO CARE about how many d1cks got insider our girls before ours especially if we are the one feeding her and keeping herin our house.

Paying 500 euros per lay (random number for a relationship) with a decent girl with a low c0ck count and a great personality is better than paying only 300 euros per lay with an escort...but make your wife a nagging cvnt with high mileage and its no longer worth.

So the "cost" is not only terms of money as much as the benefit is not only in terms of "s3x", any man calculates by his own idea.

 

[John9999]

It’s all so crazy. What I want I just can’t have.