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Gentlemen, listen up good.

Using escorts is fine for business as I've outlined earlier.

It's also okay to use escorts for pleasure once you have attained greatness as a man, a successful man, knows game, has access to women BUT decided to not waste ur perceived precious time on going through the process of courtship.

It is however NOT okay if you are not well rounded, still socially awkward, have not made ur mark in life, still struggling with women etc.

You still need to acquire skills sets in those areas and it's important that you do because it helps in other areas of ur life as well.

As for OP it's fine if u r using escorts as you seem matured but it's not okay to push the narrative of using escort in lieu of game for those still struggling.

Stick around the forums, read up some good threads and perhaps you'll even learn something here other then escorts.
 

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Gentlemen, listen up good.

Using escorts is fine for business as I've outlined earlier.

It's also okay to use escorts for pleasure once you have attained greatness as a man, a successful man, knows game, has access to women BUT decided to not waste ur perceived precious time on going through the process of courtship.

It is however NOT okay if you are not well rounded, still socially awkward, have not made ur mark in life, still struggling with women etc.

You still need to acquire skills sets in those areas and it's important that you do because it helps in other areas of ur life as well.

As for OP it's fine if u r using escorts as you seem matured but it's not okay to push the narrative of using escort in lieu of game for those still struggling.

Stick around the forums, read up some good threads and perhaps you'll even learn something here other then escorts.
Oh my God I think you couldn’t be any more wrong. Escorts are the perfect solution for a guy that has no game, Is shy , but wants to get laid.

The better escorts are very skilled at helping men to get over break ups, divorces, job loss and all kinds of other difficulties.

When I saw my very first escort I was in the middle of a very nasty and difficult divorce. That situation shook me to my core. I was not ready to do regular dating.

I remember a friend of mine who post divorce was just too out of practice to do any kind of dating. I said you’re coming with me and I took him to a Famous strip club in Los Angeles. He picked a girl and took her to the private section. He thanked me so much. It got him out of his shell and he started to date.
 

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Oh my God I think you couldn’t be any more wrong. Escorts are the perfect solution for a guy that has no game, Is shy , but wants to get laid.

The better escorts are very skilled at helping men to get over break ups, divorces, job loss and all kinds of other difficulties.

When I saw my very first escort I was in the middle of a very nasty and difficult divorce. That situation shook me to my core. I was not ready to do regular dating.
It's at best a band-aid, deep down you know it and I know it.

Yes it's good for those type of cuts that life throws at you.

For many men here, it's not just cuts they received but a sickness that requires surgery and healing, band-aids would only make matters worse for those.

Know ur audience when pushing ur narratives.
 

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It's at best a band-aid, deep down you know it and I know it.

Yes it's good for those type of cuts that life throws at you.

For many men here, it's not just cuts they received but a sickness that requires surgery and healing, band-aids would only make matters worse for those.

Know ur audience when pushing ur narratives.
OK I agree that using escorts is not any kind of permanent replacement for having a loving relationship. Unfortunately for me my marriage ended badly and on the last 10 years together were horrible. Then I wind up engaged to a complete psychopath BPD.

I thought this post would be kind of fun and maybe us guys would share some funny stories of using escorts.
 

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OK I agree that using escorts is not any kind of permanent replacement for having a loving relationship. Unfortunately for me my marriage ended badly and on the last 10 years together were horrible. Then I wind up engaged to a complete psychopath BPD.

I thought this post would be kind of fun and maybe us guys would share some funny stories of using escorts.
Okay bro. Let's keep it at that.

I've no issues with it.

Stick around, there's plenty to mine here, there's some really smart guys around posting really good stuff that might surprise you.

Read up POOK threads, I've only ever read like 3 to 4 of his works but it's spot on and very informative.
 

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Gentlemen, listen up good.

Using escorts is fine for business as I've outlined earlier.

It's also okay to use escorts for pleasure once you have attained greatness as a man, a successful man, knows game, has access to women BUT decided to not waste ur perceived precious time on going through the process of courtship.
What are you talking about? Becoming a movie star or something? The fact is you said they are dirty and you would only go with low mileage women. Do you know why? It is because you know they are disgusting.

You portray yourself as a successful international business man who is well connected and has made it. Obviously once you are a certain level women would give it up for free just to be in your world. You of all people know this.

At the end of the day you are not practising what you are preaching and your okays sound like you are patronizing.

spaz said:
It is however NOT okay if you are not well rounded, still socially awkward, have not made ur mark in life, still struggling with women etc.

You still need to acquire skills sets in those areas and it's important that you do because it helps in other areas of ur life as well.
Well that describes 99.9% of people who bring that up here. This is a college aged section of the board where older guys are supposed to give advice to yonge men. This is not even on the mature section.
 

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OK I agree that using escorts is not any kind of permanent replacement for having a loving relationship. Unfortunately for me my marriage ended badly and on the last 10 years together were horrible. Then I wind up engaged to a complete psychopath BPD.

I thought this post would be kind of fun and maybe us guys would share some funny stories of using escorts.
Using them can get you out of a rut. Most of us were worried about men relying upon escort and having zero game and zero swag and attractiveness.
 

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OK I agree that using escorts is not any kind of permanent replacement for having a loving relationship. Unfortunately for me my marriage ended badly and on the last 10 years together were horrible. Then I wind up engaged to a complete psychopath BPD.

I thought this post would be kind of fun and maybe us guys would share some funny stories of using escorts.
I went with one during the divorce proceedings too. It fixed a wound by creating a worst one. Healing aa headache by cutting your finger so one pain would be worst than the other. What I write comes from experience. I dont act like it is okay but never try it. I tell it how it is.
 

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What are you talking about? Becoming a movie star or something? The fact is you said they are dirty and you would only go with low mileage women. Do you know why? It is because you know they are disgusting.

You portray yourself as a successful international business man who is well connected and has made it. Obviously once you are a certain level women would give it up for free just to be in your world. You of all people know this.

At the end of the day you are not practising what you are preaching and your okays sound like you are patronizing.



Well that describes 99.9% of people who bring that up here. This is a college aged section of the board where older guys are supposed to give advice to yonge men. This is not even on the mature section.
College section?

That's as presumptous as ur narratives about hoes being under demonic possession.

And you under attack by those demons.

You should post under anything else.
 

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College section?

That's as presumptous as ur narratives about hoes being under demonic possession.

And you under attack by those demons.

You should post under anything else.
Yes after seeing the last escort which is more than you have done. I am steering people away from it which I feel is more constructive as a net, no matter what you think, than you have. Why not just admit you think they are disgusting like hell and you would not touch them with a ten foot pole. You talk at two sides of your mouth.

All you can do is try to save face to your toxic posts. I defend every post I made here and dont have to duck, hide and change my story when it is convenient like you are.

You know what? Based on what you think about prostitutes, deep down inside, my demonic attacks were caused by dealing with what you would call a disgusting dirty hoe. That would actually make sense. If you called a $300 hoe a dirty skank then I cant imagine what you think of a $60 one. You would get a nervous breakdown yourself the way you are sounding for dealing with that type of prostitute. So at the end of it you are agreeing with me. Disgusting to the point of shock.
 
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If I hadn't been using escorts regularly, I'd have had about 1/50th the amount of the sex I've actually had (I'm counting "happy ending" lap dances as being an escort experience). I guess this makes me an "escortcel". :rolleyes:

The great thing about escorts is that it gets the john to consider having a sex life - with decent-looking women without the cuckholding-after-the-fact that is part & parcel of dating single mommies :mad: - as normal instead of the brutish reality that is of the incelibate. OK, maybe this is like The Matrix, but it works for me.
 

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The former consensus was it hurts your attraction and game in general. Since you lead with your wallet. Also the energy aspect is they are doing a job. They are not there due to an intense lust for you.
So the choice is between being an incel with a bigger bank account or someone whose lizard-brain desire for sex is being satiated?
 

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It's called guilt and shame. Nothing supernatural about it.
And the guilt & shame is simply evolved emotion as men who didn't have this emotion didn't pursue women as much, and hence disn't pass on the genes that didn't have this emotion.
 

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But you are probably from the United States, were prostitution is illegal in most of the territory, so most of it is shady I guess. So most members in here will tell you to stay away from prostitutes.

It´s your life op. Go with your gut. You´ll probably get tired of prostitutes and will like to feel the thrill of "the hunt" once again. Eventually you will get tired of playing games and return to prostitutes. Me personally, I think you should mix it up.
The thrill of the hunt is not so thrilling if nothing gets hit except for the "elephants". :mad:
 

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The other aspect of guilt is that the price paid to set-up the encounter, if it's too cheap, makes you feel like there is something wrong with the girl, or the set-up itself which is why it is that cheap. If you paid more money then it may feel more like a tangible balance of financial pain to the pleasure, rather than feeling like you are taking advantage of someone and feel bad to them as to how they ended up there and if I have enough class to not stoop that low. Without that balance I think the mind could go into a tailspin and create its own balance against that pleasure.
But yet the same men who diss-diss this are more than happy to buy an extraordinarily expensive certain rock having a very low-light-speed for access to the poontang ...
 

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Yes everyone is way too square. OK guys take a look at this. This is my most recent girl I’m seeing. She is wonderful and I have none of the headaches of a regular girlfriend.
This gal is clean, of course I use a condom.

Geez, this was supposed to be a thread for guys who have seen escorts to comment
Lovely woman.
 

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The sex will never be as good as when a women desperately wants every inch of your c0ck. You are paying for like 30-50% of what they have to offer.
Yes, but the women who desperately want me in that regard are typically obese. :mad:
 

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Yes after seeing the last escort which is more than you have done. I am steering people away from it which I feel is more constructive as a net, no matter what you think, than you have. Why not just admit you think they are disgusting like hell and you would not touch them with a ten foot pole. You talk at two sides of your mouth.

All you can do is try to save face to your toxic posts. I defend every post I made here and dont have to duck, hide and change my story when it is convenient like you are.

You know what? Based on what you think about prostitutes, deep down inside, my demonic attacks were caused by dealing with what you would call a disgusting dirty hoe. That would actually make sense. If you called a $300 hoe a dirty skank then I cant imagine what you think of a $60 one. You would get a nervous breakdown yourself the way you are sounding for dealing with that type of prostitute. So at the end of it you are agreeing with me. Disgusting to the point of shock.
Talking about escorts or prostitution seems to get you all excited in any thread that touches this topic.

I wonder why..

Anyways, ur perception on them is in no way reflective on how I think.

You use emotions when dealing with them as if to fill a void in ur soul.

I use rationality, profitability, sound judgement and basically all round good sense.

I don't view them with disgust nor disdain. I said cheap because it's useless to bring those types with me, there's no profit to be had.

When I say dirty, it means they're high mileage and that means a higher probability of being infected with some disease. That's rationality playing out and an advice to men here to be careful.

You on the other hand are not thinking but expressing the deep seated emotions about past experiences with prostitution or women which chains ur soul and feels conflicted by it.

Ur conflict is ur problem not mine nor is it my fault.
 

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For men who delude themselves into thinking that paying a prostitute to f**k him makes him a don or player with tight game, no, there’s no game nor skill involved in handing someone cash.
Men who go the escort route have internalized the fact that regular poontang of any decent quality is just not available to them, and have decided that getting the brain-chemical high that sex with an attractive woman is worth parting with however much cash it costs. Is there a better chemical high from sex with an attractive woman that did not have to be paid for (at least directly)? Sure, but at the end of the day the chemical high from the escort is deemed better than whatever NET chemical high is gotten from having sex with an attractive single mommy or a childless fat woman. Chad is able to get that better high for free (even indirectly), but normies only get that on very few occasions, and incels NEVER get it.
 
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