"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
why men are so sad?
- Thread starter sosousage
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backseatjuan
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yeah i dont think my smile is hot tho
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
zekko
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...y-finds-smiling-men-are-less-attractive-women
Desdinova
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I had gone to a client's place to do some work, but the client wasn't ready and the house manager wasn't around. They asked me to leave my number so the house manager could call me when they were ready for me to come do the work.
I eventually got a phone call from the house manager telling me they were ready for me to return. So I show up and meet the house manager who is a tall, thin, hot blonde. She stayed with me most of the time I was doing my work.
After I had left, I received a text message from her...
"Just HAD to say.. you have a great smile. made my day thanks "
If I wasnt in an exclusive relationship, I would have easily turned that into a date.
lucky ur smile is good