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Master Don Juan
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I saw this pretty girl working at a store and it looks like she was noticing me. When we finally saw each other I attempted to smile at her. However, I thought it would not come up right and bailed and just turned away. Felt like crap. This girl ignored me the rest of the time I was at the store and felt like I blew it. I don't remember smiling naturally at girls since 1993, and rarely make attempts to avoid a scenario like this happening. Now I feel socially blacklisted and she's going to tell all her friends about this nerdy guy that is always hanging out with his folks, who tried to smile at her. My reputation there is ruined.
Is there any advice on managing these type of spectacular fails? Maybe I should just quit this smile thing altogether. If the smile was a success, then I guess I would have felt totally connected with her and her pretty face and in a state of a momentary bliss which would have stayed in my mind for about a few days, and maybe continue smiling at this girl over again especially if she's smiling back.
This is why I think phermones are needed. When there are good pheromones on, smiling around women feels more natural. Wonder how actors/actresses pull of exposing their personality on screen sometimes. It looks like I get spectacular fails when I attempt to do so in real life.
Guess, one further thread that jsim can add to his catalog of negative threads, lol!
Is there any advice on managing these type of spectacular fails? Maybe I should just quit this smile thing altogether. If the smile was a success, then I guess I would have felt totally connected with her and her pretty face and in a state of a momentary bliss which would have stayed in my mind for about a few days, and maybe continue smiling at this girl over again especially if she's smiling back.
This is why I think phermones are needed. When there are good pheromones on, smiling around women feels more natural. Wonder how actors/actresses pull of exposing their personality on screen sometimes. It looks like I get spectacular fails when I attempt to do so in real life.
Guess, one further thread that jsim can add to his catalog of negative threads, lol!