RickTheToad
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Happy to hear for you and the rest. At least some know how the game is played. Some are more of the exception than the rule.Guru, Amante and Murk posts screen shots of chats.
So do I.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Happy to hear for you and the rest. At least some know how the game is played. Some are more of the exception than the rule.Guru, Amante and Murk posts screen shots of chats.
So do I.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I seriously believe it can be replicated which is why I'm on here.Happy to hear for you and the rest. At least some know how the game is played. Some are more of the exception than the rule.
For some, yes, but no, not for the majority. BION, posters such as Big Dave, et al are more the norm IRL than the exception.I seriously believe it can be replicated which is why I'm on here.
Men needs to be empowered with knowledge but it takes a whole village of men to pass it around.
I will have different strengths compared to the rest and vice versa.
All these strengths when taken in and practiced on will yield results, perhaps it's bad the first few times but it will get better with time.
There's not much to it actually, it's just a shifting of the current mindset into another.
Sad i hope i never get that desperate.For some, yes, but no, not for the majority. BION, posters such as Big Dave, et al are more the norm IRL than the exception.
I do agree and I get what you mean.For some, yes, but no, not for the majority. BION, posters such as Big Dave, et al are more the norm IRL than the exception.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What do you think is their problem in not getting any a$$ for years on end ?Sad i hope i never get that desperate.
I dont think they are the norm not at my age anyway, out of all.my friend i have maybe 15% have been single and not getting any in the last few years.
Below average look wise, not in shape, unsecure, weak personalities, trying to get women way higher than them smv wise and low EQWhat do you think is their problem in not getting any a$$ for years on end ?
Humor me and answer this.Below average look wise, not in shape, unsecure, weak personalities, trying to get women way higher than them smv wise and low EQ
One of them thought he had a date the other day the women show up with a date of her own.
Poor guy was friendzone to the max, he probably did not make his intent very clear when asking her to grab a drink.
And a few more reason im sure.
They are good guy but they are having a real hard time.
Exercise and diet might be easiest way to improve on many front.Humor me and answer this.
What do you think could change the luck of those friends besides plastic surgery ?
Agreed. I just find it interesting that basically the same questions get asked day in and day out. We have a search feature for all visitors to use.I do agree and I get what you mean.
But even if you're managed to assist 1 singular man into being somewhat greater then it's a victory of sorts wouldn't it ?
There will come a point when I've exhausted all that I could share and when I keep repeating the same thing for a lengthy period - I know it's time to leave SS and I've given it all. It will be time for others to replace us. A natural order of things.
But until that time arrives we must give the benefit of doubt to men coming in for advice or pointers.
Simple. One word; mirror.Humor me and answer this.
What do you think could change the luck of those friends besides plastic surgery ?
As in the short term, let's not touch on the long term changes.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Again humor me.Exercise and diet might be easiest way to improve on many front.
Depends on the guy,Again humor me.
And if they were given the resources to do just that, how long do you think they'll need to achieve the desired results ?
That's fine, and I'm not saying that you are they are faking them.Guru, Amante and Murk posts screen shots of chats.
So do I.
Diets and exercises needs years to achieve anything tangible ?Depends on the guy,
Probably years to get decent result and after that its a continous process.
Depends on what need to be fix, mindset amd personality dont change overnigh, physical shape can be faster.
I doubt that whatsup chats are that easy to fake.That's fine, and I'm not saying that you are they are faking them.
But it seems to me they would be easy to fake, if one were so inclined to do so.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I don't see why they would be hard to fake. Even without any photoshop trickery, all you would need is two different accounts to talk to each other on.I doubt that whatsup chats are that easy to fake.
But again who would go to such elaborate lengths to do it ?
I didn't know it's possible to create 2 whatsup accounts using the same phone/number.I don't see why they would be hard to fake. Even without any photoshop trickery, all you would need is two different accounts to talk to each other on.
As to why, I don't understand why people lie to impress other people in the first place. But not only do people do it, you have a large number of posters here who advocate lying. Some of whom are posting pics and chats. Again, I'm not saying those people are lying, but I'm probably more gullible than most.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.